I cant tell if I'm bi or not. I can imagine dating a girl and that kinda stuff, but Do you guys think it is a phase or hormones? Help Pleez!
2006-09-07 15:16:32 · 29 answers · asked by Ella 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You will never know until you try. It might just be a phase.
2006-09-07 15:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagining and doing are two different things. It's OK to have thoughts or fantasies that don't represent something that you actually do. So just thinking about girls doesn't make you bisexual or lesbian.
If you ever fall in love with a girl, or have sex with girls that goes beyond the experimentation of late adolescence and early adult hood, then maybe you can start thinking you might be bi or lesbian. Until then, you are just an active thinker.
2006-09-07 15:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could very well be a phase. but in my case, it isn't. ive been bi for a few months now and gone through a ton of change. except being bi never changed. ive never experimented, but i still know. so it could also be real. just experiment and if you dont feel anything when your with a certain gender then youll know. you could be bi. you could be gay. you could be straight. you never know until you try. im still not 100% sure. ive never been in a relationship ever. but im still pretty sure. one day you too will be pretty sure. hopefully thats soon. i really hope this helped <3
2006-09-07 16:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could make out with both a guy and a girl and decide which is better. Smell is also a big fator when you make out with either use this sense. Alternatively you could flip a coin, the fates should say whether hou should chase head or tails:)
2006-09-07 15:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to try and have a threesome and see witch one you enjoy moor the man or the woman and take it from there.... It might just be a phase or you just might be a lesbian so you will need to follow you heart to really know what you want....
Good Luck
2006-09-07 17:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a lot of woman go through this once in their life if not they will. i also wondered if i was bi or not. i am attracted to men and females and it just confuses me on who to like. men for me i always had problems; very abusive and with being curious i hooked up with a female who has treated me so great. but the question is...do i like her and only her or do i still like men? it's ok to like both. sometimes if your with a guy the guy will be ok with the g/f seeing a female as well. not threesome but as long as she doesn't see another male. my friends are just weird lol. whatever your feeling, if you like females go for it hon! both men and woman can hurt so either way it's ok!
2006-09-07 15:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can all imagine. Do you actually want to date a girl? If so, you are probably bi.
2006-09-07 15:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by spunk113 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u want to have sex with women and men? would you consider having a relationship with a woman or a man? if yes, then u are bi
2006-09-07 16:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking, then ur bi. Nothing wrong with that, just be str8 up with other people u get involve with. Do u, baby girl. )O
2006-09-07 15:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tru 2 Myself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you similarly attracted to members of both sexes? That's all there is to it then.
And (sigh) I'd suggest that you *not* go around sleeping with a bunch of different people to "check"--most straight people know that they are without having to double-check, don't they?
2006-09-07 16:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by enaronia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋