i think im in love with this other guy.. but i have a bf... who am i living with..i feel guilty about it.. but i cant help thinking of him.. and i think i fell out of luv with my current bf.. i dunno.. pls help!!
2006-09-07 14:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by ShyGuRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As it is with any one in any relationship it is always better to be honest and truthfull & Respectfull to your self as well has the one you are with that is the adult and the right thing to do always in reality no matter if we like it or not.
If you truely have fallen out of love with the one that you are with and in love with the other guy then what you should do is take time to be with yourself only to start so that you can reexamine the situation as well as what or how you truely and honestly feel about yourself then about the one you are with currently then do the same on how you really feel about the other guy but take you time on this as you do it do not rush it to it be paicent as you do this -Always remember that things do take time- and that you are dealing with a situation that could turn on you if you are not carefull when you least expect it.
Thus if you find that you have true feelings for the other guy and not for the one you are with and always be truthfull and honest with yourself on this and if it is an actuallity that you are in love with the other guy and not with your current bf then you must first see if the other guy truely feels the same about you as well as every other positive emotion and feeling that there is as well as respect etc and if it is true with out using any physical things such as sex or any other thing then you must be totally be Honest truthfull with the one that you are currently with no matter what cuz that is again the adult and right thing to do.
All this must be there as you tell and talk to your current bf on this thing that you feel truthfull and honestly about no matter how much it may hurt emottionaly -He deserves all the honesty and truthfull ness that there is in or on anything that he is faced with or faces with as well.
And always remember that you must not go by what or how the Person looks from the out side you must go for the Person for who they are from with in them emotionaly etc and no I do not mean for what he or she has underneith the clothing.
And also each and everyone of us has Beauty from with in each and everyone of us it dose not matter if we are male or female.
Thus also know that if you find that you do not have as strong effections or feeling for the other guy as much as you do for the current person that you are with then stick with the one that you are with and do not worry about it any more.
2006-09-07 15:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Peace Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think you have fallen out of love with your boyfriend you need to tell him. It is not fair to either one of you to stay in the relationship when you have feelings for someone else. It may hurt him initially, but it would be worse if he found out you were being dishonest. You have to follow your heart.
2006-09-07 22:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you have fallen out of love with your current boyfriend, then you should end it. Be honest with him and let him know you have fallen out of love and it would not be fair of you to mis-lead him. He does NOT have to be told of the other guy.
Do what feels right (in your heart), and go to what makes you happy. Don't live your life with regret or shame.
2006-09-07 22:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by andrachuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REALLY do some soul searching. is this just a fantasy? if not before you do any thing talk to your boyfriend now and if your not happy ,move on but as the old saying goes don't jump out of the frying pan into the fire. good luck.
2006-09-07 21:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by frankie baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having feels for someone else is fine, just as long as you don't act on them while you are in this relationship.
If you are no longer in love with your boyfriend, then you have to leave. Give him the chance to find someone who loves him as much as he love them.
2006-09-07 21:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is it possible that "we" (out here in cyber land) can help?
You have described your plight now
what is your question?
this is something only YOU can decide. If you choose not to decide
you still have made a choice.
tom
2006-09-07 21:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋