well me and my best friend talked about our problem.
so now she said that our friendship is our. but it's not going to be the same anymore. actually its not the same anymore.
she doesn't call anymore. unlike before. we pass each other in the hallways like we don't even know each other.
i really miss her i want everything to go back to the way it was.
and i don't know how to do it need help.
2006-09-07 14:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her and ask what is the problem...is she said that she is not ready to talk then wait until she is ready.....
if she is ur bestfriend she understand wht u feel right now...
maybe u need to talk to her,and solve it.
2006-09-07 14:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is fluid - sometimes it lasts for a long time and sometimes not. I would suggest that you cultivate new friendships so you can find another best friend.
I've been in situations like this before and, as painful as it may be, you need to move on and get busy with other things. Join activities where you'll be able to meet different people.
You just have to take one day at a time. Good luck.
2006-09-07 14:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to dinner and REALLY TALK. Have a heart to heart and tell her how you feel. Then let her respond. If she feels the same way or totally understands then she knows about how you feel and can make an effort to get back to your groove. If she doesn't than you don't want to be close w/her either if she can just throw a realtionship away like that. And you don't want to be totally about being her friend if she won't give you the effort back.
2006-09-07 14:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go up to her or email her or sumthing letting her know how u feel because maybe she doesnt realize how u feel maybe she feels the same way....so u need to talk to her about it and get things straitend out before u assume anything
2006-09-07 14:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Confused Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you need to do is sit down with her and tell her then the second but most important thing is to listen... LISTEN to what she has to say... how she feels... what she wants... where she sees you and her... just straight ask her after you told her how you left just make sure you actually listen to what she has to say and be involved in what she tells you so she knows that you are listening.
2006-09-07 14:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her how u feel that you need her in your life and that whatever you did your sorry and talking to her is the best way to solve your problem or
show her how much she means to you (as a friend)
2006-09-07 14:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your getting too much info on the answers. Just tell her what your feeling. Depending on what the problem was, you need to just tell her. period. Then accept the outcome.
2006-09-07 14:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does happens, u initiate exchanging some pleasantries and talk to her like normal,be alittle more sweet to her,and show her, how much u miss her,everything will be fine don worry
2006-09-07 14:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by shruts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are a dime a dozen. Go find you a new one and forget the old one. She has obviously forgotten you.
2006-09-07 14:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dnot know what to say, you can try to talk it out, or you can try to meat new friends!
2006-09-07 14:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋