You had to choose to walk away from great love. Having him/her right in front of you and even though every part of you wants that person..life forces you to walk away for one reason or anothe?
I am looking for comforting stories so I know I will be okay!
Any thoughts?
2006-09-07 14:25:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There is a quote " When one door closes, another one opens. But we often look so long-fully and regretfully upon the closed door that we miss the ones that open before us"
Don't let than happen! Fate and Karma has kept you from him for a reason, respect that reason, whatever it may be. It will lead you to either something better, or back to him when you both are ready!
2006-09-07 14:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could write a book on this topic i have been through it and it NEVER goes away the love for that person will always be there it has been many years but i still love him,but you can be happy with out that person and someday i think you will. i am happy and i am married i love my hubby with all my heart and he is a good man. and when you move on you will remember the reasons you are a part and it will make more sense than you ever thought it could. you will be all right but it is okay to still love that person there was a reason that person was in your life and learn from it mature from it and you will find another love. good luck my dear
2006-09-07 21:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I visit my true love once in a while, and I have been doing so for lifetimes. We are slowly learning to be together, and though I weep every time I leave her, I know it brings me one step closer to her. Every time I return to her, we are able to open our hearts to eachother a little more. It is a game our souls are playing for the pure joy of reuniting. But there is always a parting, to make this possible. The sadness, if you dare to feel it fully, is simply another very beautiful expression of your love. It is a dance we do simply for the joy of it. Even if you spend a lifetime together, eventually you will seperate. But you can meet again, and do it even more joyfully!
If you truly wish to be with someone, then your wish is fulfilled already; somewhere in time you are already together in an eternity of bliss.
2006-09-07 21:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by joju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I left him in Switzerland. He was a US Marine - awesome guy. We had some great times together and talked about the future. I had to come back to Canada and he got re-posted to Iceland. We couldn't afford to get together and - well life goes on. That was 15 years ago and I never heard from him again. I do think about him sometimes though. Now I'm married with four kids.
2006-09-07 21:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by snowy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading your question gave me goosebumps. This has happened to me twice 20 years apart. The pain is real, an aching in your heart because it is broken. You will always love him/her and they will be forever in your thoughts. But time will make it easier, and you will consider yourself luckier than most people who never get to know/or meet the great love of their life like you have. You will come to have a quiet acceptance of the situation that you cannot change. You will be OK just as I was and the many before and after us.
My heart goes out to you.
2006-09-07 22:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by kar_summers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am facing the same problem so i don't know what to tell ya i know it is a hard decision to make
2006-09-07 21:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by neesatutt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to make an impossible choice; die, or don't live.
I chose to live.
2006-09-07 21:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by kittybriton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i havent ur lucky u get that much lov3
2006-09-07 21:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by MyStomachHurtss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋