my boyfriend has been acting strange, one day he loves me and wants to be with me the next day he tells me he dont know if he loves me. one day when hes drinking he treats me like crap and the next im the best thing next to slice bread. he sends me mixed signals. and i dont know what to do. because i love him to much to lose him what should i do?
2006-09-07 14:13:07 · 22 answers · asked by last_breath_left 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ummm...it might be just me but shouldn't you be the best thing next to sliced bread all the time!?!? Ask him to be honest with you, if he can't give you an honest answer then it may be sad, but also time to hit the road!
2006-09-07 14:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is only fulfilling if it is returned. It sounds as if bf is having a lot of doubts about the relationship. Maybe it is just me, but I wouldn't want to be involved with someone who didn't put me first and want me all the time. Sometimes it is better to cut your losses and move on. I think, for you and this relationship, that time is now.
Go out and get someone who has no doubts about how he feels about you and that deserves to have your love.
There should be no mixed signals. Having mixed signals is a big giant red flag.
Good luck
2006-09-07 21:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some issues. Maybe he is bi-polar or maybe he just doesn't have a clue if he really wants the relationship or not. Best thing to do is straighten things out and find out where you stand. Talk to him and see whats up with him and why he is constantly changing how he acts towards you.
2006-09-07 21:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is already drifting awya..but u may be able to fix it if u talk to him and tell how u feel. u should say "if u don't want to be with me anymore or if u r cheating on me just tell me because i would rather u just get it over with and leave me instead of drag it out and make me suffer if that's what u r going to do" and after that he will shape up 4 sure if he really wants to be with u if that isn't what he wants it's better that u move on and find someone else! don't let this drag on or else u will be miserable! i hope this helped u!!! love ya~baby girl~
2006-09-07 21:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by ~sugar lips~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that girls just don't have any self respect anymore? If I guy is treating you like crap, then leave him! There is another guy out there for you who will treat you with respect. Talk to him about how you feel. If he won't talk to you about it, he won't talk to you about any important issues that come up. Make him treat you with respect, or leave. You'll be better off in the end.
Good Luck.
2006-09-07 21:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by runda007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don;t know[nothing wrong here ]but he sounds like he might be gay talk too him about it and if this is the case try and stay close friends with him he will need all the support he can get and so will you god bless the both of you and good luck
2006-09-07 21:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel.. talk about it with him if he dont understand he isnt worth it.. i know you love him but you cant be with someone who sends mixed signals.. He already left ya emotionally!
2006-09-07 21:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an emotionally unstable alcoholic. Send him to AA or just cut your losses. You're not going to find stability with him.
2006-09-07 21:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be unsensitive or anything but you may want to take a break....from what you say...he seems like one of those guys who cheats around....THINK about it!! I used to be the same way....until the chick i was with called me on it....so all im sayin is check up on it....i may be wrong. But theres always a chance
2006-09-07 21:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by dirt_riderYZ250 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sever all ties. i know its hard, ive had to do it several times, but just think about it... there is a guy out there waiting on you. he wants to treat you right and love you and offer to beat the snot out of all the guys who've ever done you wrong. i understand you love this guy, but he's bad for you. he's just bringing you down. its time to find somebody who will fully appreciate you.
2006-09-07 21:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Bailey J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋