i end up kissing my best friend boyfriend. it didn't happened once but 4 times. she doesn't know about it. what should i do? should i tell her or should i just keep it to myself
2006-09-07 14:08:20 · 21 answers · asked by AngelCakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, why did you do that?! You let this happen 4 TIMES!!!!! Tell her the truth and hopefully, she will forgive you. What goes around, comes around so don't kiss her boyfriend anymore. Her boyfriend shouldn't have kissed you to begin with either. He's not a good boyfriend to her anyway. Stop it right now or you are going to hurt yourself, your best friend, and her boyfriend. Shame on you Miss Thing!
2006-09-07 14:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh for crying out loud ugh, what were you two thinking. You just couldn't control yourselves could you . Now you both hurt that girl now what do you two have to say for yourselves hmm? Now you have no choice but tell her.This is so wrong niether of you are worthy of her friendship ,shame on you. If you don't tell her your consience is going to catch up with the both of you and it won't be pretty. You better tell her like right now! What is it with you kids today?
2006-09-07 21:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good thing to do..hope you dont honestly think that this guy is worth a friendship because he is playing the both of you and probably laughing about it to all his friends. I think you should come clean with your friend because it will eventually come out one way or another. Its better that she hears it straight from you as it happened...you know how stories get changed as they get passed around.
2006-09-07 21:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you even go there to begin with???
friends dont do that to one another...
you must not be much of a friend.... the least you can do now is be honest with her. the truth is gonna hurt, but its better than being in the dark, at least then she would know what type of people you and her boyfriend really are
2006-09-07 21:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her and expect a huge backlash. or maybe you should tell him he needs to figure out what he wants and if it's kissing other girls he should break up with your friend. i've said it on here before and i'll say it again. chicks before *****! you may have lost your best friend, is that what you want? no matter the outcome if you tell her and she breaks up with him and you or he figures out and does what he wants, i'd steer clear of him. that would show her (if you tell her) that you are sorry and she means more to you than he does and you could possibly salvage your relationship. i think i'd talk to him first and hopefully he will brake her heart not you.
2006-09-07 21:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
prepare yourself for the reaction you are going to get from your friend. it could either be good or bad. but choosing not to tell her and she finds out about it from someone else like I don't know her boyfriend he could make you look like the instigator of those kisses.
you may lose your friend's trust either way
2006-09-07 22:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the best of friends but you can't help it if you have feelings for a guy! Talk to the guy in private and say, "Listen, I think I may have feelings for you (or something like that) but _____ really likes you. Maybe even loves you and I can't ruin that. There's nothing to say we can't be friends, but I could never betray ______ like that."
Even if your friend and her boyfriend break up you still can't really date him unless your friend says it's cool.
2006-09-07 21:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by K.I.S.S. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her, cause she will eventually find out from someone else and then she will be really mad at you. If you are her best frind what are you doing kissing her boyfriend. That is outta bounds.
2006-09-07 21:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are a horrible friend!. ok, let's just say that maybe some people would excuse one kiss, not me, but some would. but four? that's selfish and messed up. you , as a grown woman need to figure out what you should do. but you should definitely stop kissing him. get your own man!
2006-09-07 21:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep a friend then tell her and say ur srry but if you dont then dont tell her and let her find out later on and have her hate you.
2006-09-07 21:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by newgirl2491 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋