OK, so I know i asked earler, but I'm still confused. I'm the good-girl prep, but should I go for the bad boy? I know he likes me and I'm crushing on him. but should I give up a good relationship with the all-american dream boy, or go for the bad-boy? Zack ( the deram boy) has a scholarship ahd he's moving across the country at hte end of this year. T (the bad-boy) and I still have like 2 years left in high school. I have no idea what to do. If you need more info, read "Should I go for it" part 1. It's posted by me... katie. Thanks for the help.
2006-09-07 14:03:47 · 19 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
P.S. I do soccer, sofftball, horseback rideing, and cheerleading...you get the point.
T is into drugs(only weed though...I think), drinking, and he's in a little trouble with the law (but, he'll be off of probation on monday.)
I think I might be really good for T. I could help him out, you know.
Me and Zack have been together for like 4 years. he's a year older than me and we started dateing in 8th./7th. grade. Maybe i need a brake from him you know. Maybe for a little while.
This is just a little more info. for ya.
2006-09-07 16:47:55 · update #1
Been there, done that. Your situation reminds me of when I was in school. I chose the bad guy and guess what...my grades dropped, I stopped doing my things, and stop caring about my future because of the infatuation I had with this guy. In the end, he left me for another girl, she did worse drugs than he did. They both ended up in jail, never seen him again. What happened to the good guy? He never forgave me for what I did. He told me it would have been easier for him to get over if I would have only been sincere about the relationship. I mean, I cared about him but I didn't love him...true love comes later in life when you feel in your heart you are ready to get married and stuff. So, basically, if you care about the good guy, have a talk with him. Honesty is most important in any relationship. After all, he is also your friend. Think about it. Hit me up if you need clarification. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-08 17:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by bikerchic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Katie, I think sometimes things in life isn't how you plan it to be. Your dream boy could just be a dream. Come to reality. If Zack is leaving then what can he do for you. He is across country. Believe me you guys are gonna just get into this jealous relationship and never be happy. If that happens your going to regret staying with him and not experiencing T. Your young and why should you be tied down to guy you can't even see. If I were you i would still talk to Zack as a friend. If you guys want to try the long distance thing try it. but i'm warning you now you'll be wondering where he is and why he hasn't called you. T sounds like you'd be ablr to spend more time with and grow with in a relationship. Be careful whatever you do because in the end your not getting married to either of them and the only one you should worry about is you (being happy)
2006-09-07 14:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you wanna do is end up with "the bad boy" that will throw your entire life down the tube. It's not you. And he could change your entire life around for the bad- you don't want to end up with a loser. Go for the dream boy, or just wait around and the right one will come along.
2006-09-07 14:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one is going to take care of you? But also, the dream boy will be in college doing all sorts of bad things- without you. You are young, you could end up with somebody totally different in the long run. This is your prime time- have fun. You learn from your mistakes, but this is totally up to you. Good Luck!!
2006-09-07 14:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katie, stick with the good boy. The end of the year at your age is a long time.
2006-09-07 14:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the good guy if you go for the guy "T" he might put you on the wrong path with drugs and drinking. If you think you need a break from dating "Zack" than just tell that ya`ll need a break. Just don`t go for that "T" guy.
2006-09-08 01:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by flaw236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Go for the bad one. Zack's moving and you'll probably break up (and if you don't, you should, it makes for better growth during college). Now's the time to find out what you like. You can't make yourself like someone you "should" like. It's not fair to you or to Zack.
2006-09-07 14:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the dream boy, you can always pick up a bad-boy "fling" later on
2006-09-07 14:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by Andy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it. Long term relationships never work, your always thinking that they could be with someone else, which they usually are. Who knows maybe this bad boy is who your soul mate is. You never know unless you try, go for it.
2006-09-07 14:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by kooimanlora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever date a bad boy. they are called bad for a reason!
2006-09-07 14:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by horsecrazyinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋