I have been offered silly money to pose naked and/or have sex with a choice of 1, 2, or 3 men. On an ascending scale It would at best pay my way thru Uni.
2006-09-07 13:28:05 · 32 answers · asked by messymessina 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
only if you really think you can live with your self afterwards , i think , it the same as being a hoe ,, no offence to you or hoes but do you really wont to do some thing that i so gross, find another job girl , there easyer jobs to do and with more self repect for your self ,, do you think you could walk in to a family meal at xmas and hold your head up high , wot happens if a family member sees it ,, i think your mad if you do .
and im a guy , who's not gay,,, pls dont do this ......
2006-09-07 13:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by BRAVEHEART 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-24 22:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should do anything JUST for the money. I work, and I make money, there's nothing wrong with earning a little (or a lot). Some people are forced by circumstances to do work they do not enjoy. That's very unfortunate, it might not be your "hobby" but work is best if you enjoy it (at least a bit) and feel its worthwhile.
On this basis some people should do Porn, and I'm sure that they do.
Now you're not being forced by circumstances. The money would help sure but you don't HAVE TO.
So consider what the job entails. If you're response to the idea of sucking one guy whilst the other two... (you get the idea) whilst on camera for all to see is "Wow! That sounds great! You know, its one of my biggest fantasies" then go for it. If you wouldn't enjoy it at all, then waiting tables can be rewarding!
If its somewhere in between - then you've still got your problem. The only advice I'd give is to try and think how much is the money, how much is it that I'd enjoy it anyway.
2006-09-07 23:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by anthonypaullloyd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being conned. Do you honestly think anyone is going to pay silly money just for you to pose nude? Women and girls who pose nude are two a penny nowadays. You would have to have the sex and have it it regularly to get silly money. You would run the risk of becoming addicted to the money, hating the lifestyle and hating your self but reluctant to give it up and lose the money. It will ruin your life.
I have the equipment and the contacts in the porn industry to do porn and I have the financial need at the moment but I will not do it.
I know an ex porn star and she is lovely but I would not have her as a girlfriend because of her past and you would find that many decent men would not want you if you degrade yourself in this way, I wouldn't want you. Pride and self respect is worth more than all the money in the world.
2006-09-07 18:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really think that other people will be able to answer this question for you, then quite frankly you are kidding yourself.
It's all to do with your choices, your oppinions, religious views and alike.
What type of family and friends do you have? Are they very open minded/ Accepting? If not, they may not understand just why you did this.
Try to write a list out, Highlighting the good points of doing the movie, against the bad points. That will help you plan out your thoughts and help you decide which way you want to go. Always remember that once you do something such as this, that it is a big decision and most likely will stick with you most of your life.
And although it does seem like you are doing it for the right reasons, the fact remains that when some guy is Beating his pork sword at his computer, he isn't going to be thinking about your future career, now is he?
Good luck in your decision, and go with your heart
All The Best
Ash
2006-09-07 13:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Asherz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to imagine how you will feel about having done this 10 or 20 years from now. There is no right or wrong answer to this question, except the answer which relies upon you own personal views regarding the use of your body to make money, and the monetary value of having sex in a situation you would otherwise probably not have sex in. Porn is not wrong per se, but it is wrong if it makes you regret your actions in the future. Good luck with whatever decision you make. Hope uni goes well for you.
2006-09-07 17:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bovril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're totally sure that you won't have a problem admitting it to anyone in the future, then I don't see why you shouldn't do it. It's nobody else's business what you do with your body.
However, some people (see above) are likely to think less of you for having done it. It would be nice if we didn't care what people think of us, but we do, and although it might seem like a good idea now, you could find yourself regretting it in the future.
I would imagine that just posing naked is generally regarded as being less potentially sleazy then having sex with guys on screen, but it probably depends on who you ask (and who you work for).
2006-09-08 03:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider the risk of sexual disease that is transmissable through such acts. Yes, they have blood tests every month in part of the porn industry but it's still not a guarantee that you won't catch something/s.
Oh, and if you thought condoms are on the agenda-they probably aren't-people don't tend to buy films that show people using them.
If you pose naked, it can been done in a classy way.But the company dealing in porn isn't going to be classy in any shape or form.
2006-09-08 00:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jay L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing inherently wrong with the career in the porn industry..
It is subjective..
Your perceptions..
There is no "should"..
Make sure it's a safe environment, and that you're ready for what the company might be expecting from you..
But, be aware that unkown porn actresses don't make more than 300/scene.. Thus if you have been offered "silly money", this might not be a real company..
:-)
2006-09-07 15:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Andreba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey here is the question that you want to ask yourself, would you still respect yourself and do you want to do this for the money only...I say go for it if that is what you want to do...think about it first though, as long as no one is pressuring you to and the money isnt the only reason because trust me plenty of people pay for uni without doing porn. Is this also something you want to go public. If you are happy woth yur body and ohter people seein it then I say do it...I have a friend who is a stripper and she loves it as a job and not just for the money.
2006-09-08 09:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by Emma O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you still respect yourself as much after having sex for money? Only the presence of the camera distinguishes what you're being asked to do from prostitution. As someone else asked, you may one day love someone very much who would have a serious problem with what you did. If there are other means of paying your tuition - part-time jobs, bank loan, parents, scholarships - don't get sucked into it. They won't offer you that much just for nudity.
2006-09-07 20:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by Dunrobin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋