My old friends and mother's family say that... But I am not sure I believe them. Plus, I am not a bad person, so why would I go to hell just for liking people of my own gender instead of the opposite?
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I cannot change, I tried!
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2006-09-07 13:16:05 · 59 answers · asked by Alexander 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The only one to judge is God... We are all his creatures. He made us all gay, straight, and the assholes who judge. Don't worry about what other people say about your lifestyle... they are just filled with anger.
2006-09-07 13:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. Gays are wicked, evil and vile just like everybody else, so don't worry man. Everybody is going to burn in hell forever, at least it will be warm. This kind of statement derives from the miserable b*st*rds who wrote ancient religious texts. They were the modern day equivalent of computer nerds. Everybody else was having a great time dancing and fµcking and stuff and these guys couldn't get any so they wrote these really scary things down to frighten the rest of us.
Or maybe they were the guys who ate all the spacecake (Alice B. Toklas cakes) and had horrible hallucinations (Like that St John the Divine guy). Anyway they were definitely killjoys but don't let that bug you. That's them and their thing and you are you.
2006-09-07 13:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LOOK, alot of people that cant accept change and are old fashioned are the ones that do not understand... its because your different people are afraid of (DIFFERENT) think back first you had the jews and hitler and all that .. then you had black people that didnt belong.. and people didnt agree with .. now its the gay population.. it doesnt matter who and what it is .. if your different in any way your going to stand out.. and people isnt going to agree with it... i never understood any of it myself.. and being gay is hard.. now days.. probally worse back then.. but still it being different and we scare the **** out of them.. !!! if all followed one of the greatest rules of god.. then we could get along.. (dont judge.. ) thats his judge.. and no matter what race , sex, orgin , or anything else i forgotten we are all gods children and he new how we were gonna be before we made our entrance into the world... so just accept who you are.. and be happy maybe someday others will put our difference aside and see that we love just the same as anyone else.. anything that scares people is all it takes to become unaccepted.. it takes a different person to understand what being different is all about.. honey your perfect just they way you are.. no matter how you are.. live life .. be happy.. and dont listin to what others tell you .. parents dont always have the best tips anyhow... there just scared.. and trying to scare you... its life.. your fine... now just go live it the way you are with a smile on your face... and inside you just know that you scare the **** out of people.. just smile and go on... .. no ones is perfect or why else are we here..? were here to live life and learn... get over the obsticles.. just think nothing of it.. be happy .. and if i havent said anything useful.. then know this... ( JUST BE WHO YOU ARE)!!!!! .. and not who others want you to be.. because thats not you............. hope i helpled.. if not.. im sorry ...
2006-09-07 13:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by curious_29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you listen to that crap. Think of this. She believes in the Bible and Jesus right. Well the Bible was written by men. Men who say that's what "God" told them to write. How do we know it's true. I do agree that there are a lot of good life lessons, but so do fairy tales. I'm not saying I don't believe in God, but I don't think God would have made us this way if it was wrong. Like you said It's not something we can just change. I've tried to change it my self. I went as far as marring a man. Two at that. Does not work.
2006-09-07 13:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people have no right to say these things. I am a Christian and I hate it when people say things like that 'On my behalf'
1) It is not helping you (That is the way you are).
2) That is not what Christianity is about.
Gays are not wicked, evil or vile they are people with real feelings and emotions.
I am sorry that you have had to listen to this.
2006-09-07 20:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "old friends" and your mother's family are ignorant. If they know that you're gay, they're also mean and biased to say such things.
At any rate, they're wrong. Jesus didn't say anything about homosexuality, but he said several times that divorce is wrong, no exceptions. So, be sure to tell all your divorced old friends and relatives on your mother's side that they're wicked, evil, vile and going to burn in hell forever. It'll give them something to look forward to.
2006-09-07 13:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Steve H 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have always believed in the "golden rule" do unto others as you would have them do unto you. There are many religions. There are many Gods/Goddesses if you want to believe that. I know I am a good person and I feel that good deeds take us to our reward. I think it's reincarnation. But all in all, I find it hard to believe that God would create so many different people and religions but allow only ONE way to worship/praise Him. Love makes the world go around and true love knows no gender.
2006-09-10 16:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are, no not evil I mean gay.
I was at my grans years ago and they were watching TV and a gay character was on it, my grans husband (not a blood relative) said "they should all be shot". I was out at the time and said nothing I didn't see the point and thought his views were totally out of date. You will get that from time to time from some small minded people but I think there's more to be said for someone who first has to deal with being gay and then has to deal with coming out.
Leave them to it, they are not worth the trouble.
2006-09-08 02:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, my Dear One, and take a deep breath. Better? Good. Don't listen to the idiots who are spewing hate along eih their bible verses. You're *not* going to hell. A loving God doesn't send any of the Children to eternal punishment. When we die, we go Home..to whatever we see as Home. Mine is green and soft and full of trees and God and I can play all day long. I have a loving relationship with the same lady for the last quarter of a century. Love is what drives good people, not vengance, not hate. Love yourself and love those around you. Blessings, my child. Peace.
2006-09-07 13:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't let people make you change the way you are just because they aren't satisfied!!! i suppose being gay isn't the way nature intended and in some respects it isn't completely normal, but nowadays it is quite common, and NO gays and lezbians will not burn in hell and they are not vile just because of their sexuality!!!
2006-09-08 02:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by $@Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gonna burn homo!!!! LOL
just kidding, I'm gay too, I come from a family DEEP in church but you gotta lighten up. If you spend all your time thinking about that you will never live. I dont think i am a bad person. i am like everyone else except i like c.o.c.k. (lol) but its not all i focus on. i try to live life in a positive way, treat everyone like i want to be treated, try to be honest with everyone including myself and hope for the best. If i was straight I guess thats what God would want me to do.
Dream as if you will live forever and live as if you will die tommorrow.
2006-09-07 14:53:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋