I mean, we all have had previous sexual partners, but I could do without the specific details....
2006-09-07 12:41:04 · 21 answers · asked by shasta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your partner has no right to be doing that to you.
You are his partner… He should be leaving the relationships of the past ‘in the past’ where they belong.
Tell your partner that you do not like him bringing up the past sexual experiences he shared with others. Either he stops, and concentrates on satisfying your sexual desires, or he can go back to the partners of the past..
Chances are, the experiences he is describing are ‘imaginary’ because if they were as good as he claims they were, he’d still be with those partners. He has some growing up to do… Whether he does that with or without you, is a choice for you to make !!!
2006-09-07 12:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our past is our past, simply put. If your partner is describing something sexual, maybe it's something they enjoy this is their not so subtle hint in telling you, "hey why don't you do that". If it bothers you, then openly express that to your partner. If the hint still isn't taken, then you may want to counter with something like, I'm uncomfortable when you talk about that or make up (or tell the truth) about your wildest experience. But be warned, men especially don't like imaging their woman with another, that could back fire on you.
2006-09-07 20:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sybil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he share the details with you? Do you ask him ? He is being an inconsiderate bastard. What kind of a guy does this? Tell him to stop or you'll leave him. If he doesn't then move on. You do not deserve to live like this. I'm sorry for your pain. But you are married to a man that does not respect or love you.
2006-09-07 19:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u haven't asked him about it then he has no business discussing his past with u. It's very disrespectful and there really is no need for u to know all this unless it's about some STD's. Simply tell him that u feel uncomfortable with it and ask him to stop doing this in your presence.
2006-09-07 19:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your partner should have enough respect for you to NOT give details of past sexual escapades.
2006-09-07 20:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! your partner should not be discussing thier past details with you, this is VERY disrespectful toward you. your partner should be concentrating on the present, not the past, they should put YOU first, and respect your feelings.
2006-09-07 19:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by hemi_beepbeep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would just ask her to wait until the popcorn is ready. I would also ask her to bring visual aids so I did not misunderstand anything. Also, listen very carfully, you can learn likes and dislikes in this way.
2006-09-07 19:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by donronsen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always wrong,(bad idea),talk about the past sexual life.
2006-09-07 20:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I could do without the barrage of them on this site, too. People apparently want titillation and they come here to get it.
2006-09-07 19:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly... who needs all the details. There is no reason to bring this up unless the person is having self-esteem issues.
2006-09-07 19:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋