well i have this really weird feeling in my stomach (and im sure im not sick) and i've been like pratically in love with him then i guess i thought i got over him over the summer but now i think i like him again like everytime i think about him i feel like my heart sink into my stomach and then a kinda weird feeling in my stomach
i already told him i liked him before but he just didnt reply and know i dunt want to go threw the same thing again becuase he will never like me back i just want to get over him
and then at other time i feel like im going to burst out into tears for no reason
2006-09-07 12:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
i think you are scared and well same thing happened to me once. And i still like him, but sometimes things are not meant to be. Well even though i dont know you i can tell you this, if he does not seem to care well its his loss. Its hard to forget someone you like, especially if you have shared some real close moments together. Just saying, you are probably just feeling rejected. Just dont react to anything concerning him, just calm down and remember you can't change everything but you can change the things that matter the most to you and others. Take care
Trisha =)
2006-09-07 12:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think he will like you back then you need to continue on with your life without him. Time will heal. We all go through loosing someone we care about but once we find someone else to take the place of the person we love it becomes easier. If it was meant to be than he will come to you. If you are not sure if he likes you than take a chance and tell him how you feel. I found someone in middle school and lost contact 10 years later we found each other again so it was meant to be. Keep your head up and stay strong. You never know who might be having the same feelings for you and you just don't know it yet.
2006-09-07 19:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by smgerton 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on loving and healing yourself. You are hurt. You are in pain and every time you see him you feel it all over again. I know. It's hard. There is no getting around it. You've just got to get through it day by day. It might always hurt just a little or it may stop hurting altogether. Just know that you will make it through this and try to be brave and strong. Let yourself feel whatever you are feeling. Don't fight it. If you hold back your feelings you will only get stuck wallowing in a sad place. It's natural to grieve when you are disappointed by love. So just let yourself grieve. However you don't want to dwell too long in your grief. Let yourself let go. Cry, express what you feel, talk about it with your friends, your sister or your mom. Get some hugs and strokes. It will help you feel better and then you can start to move on when you are ready. One of my favorite quotes is "If you're going through hell keep going" by Winston Churchill. He meant don't spend any more time than you have in a dark place. Do what you need to do to get through it. You can do it.
2006-09-07 20:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Paisley T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's menstrual cramps.
No, sorry, I'm just kidding. You know, the same thing's happened to me, and you just gotta get over him. Yes, I know it's really hard, but the best thing is just to stay busy and concentrate on other things. There are other fish in the sea, and no matter how long it takes, eventually, you'll get over him. If he doesn't like you like that, well you can't make him, so there's no use in wasting your life on him. I about loved this guy for probably 6 months, and finally I told him, and he said he'd rather just be really good friends. It crushed me, yeah, but I got over it soon enough and I've moved on to bigger and better things. In fact, now that I'm not always talking to just him, he's started to call me more and want to hang out. I don't like him as more than friends anymore, and if he does, he missed out the first time. There is definetly more to life than this guy, and in the long run, you'll wonder why you wasted so much of your time thinking about him. Good luck with whatever happens!
2006-09-07 19:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Oneofthesedays 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keeping yourself buzy is the number one thing when it comes to getting over someone. whether its getting a job, going out to party, hanging out with friends, etc. Self confidence is important as well. If you're unhappy with anything about yourself, try to fill in you schedule on working towards perfecting it. Doing whatever it takes to get your mind off the person is the key. But remember, don't think you're helpless when all of sudden the thought of him comes popping in once in a while. that's normal and unstoppable. So basically if you notice yourself doing nothin at all every day, it's time for a change. Find your goals and ambitions in life and you're mind will naturally leave him. FOR GOOD
2006-09-07 19:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by swtnsoursauce1o9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy...so busy that you won't have time to think of him...Shopping with friends help me a lot!!! You will get over him...just remind yourself that he is not interested in you...It is not you...remember that...everyone has their own taste...not everyone that you like is going to like you back...most ppl been through what you are going through and is not a good feeling at all, its not fun...but as you grow...you will like other boys...and they will brake your heart, and you will break some of theirs...you will learn the "love" game as you grow...it is a hard game..Trust me I'm 27 and just recently was the first time that I felt in love(I thought I was a couple of times...and I realized they were just a crush)...I'm not going to say what you should do...because I know exactly how you feel...and it sucks to feel that way...all I got to say that eventually you will be OK.
2006-09-07 22:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to focus your energies on a person who can really value your love and love you back. You'll forget this guy in no time.
And the feeling in the stomach will turn in to a good one, and you will only shed tears of joy.
2006-09-07 19:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by kevinrtx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, the same thing happend to me last year, it takes a lot of time to get over him. You just need to preocupyyourself with other things wether it's a dance class or reading a book. You'll get over him with time. Just in the meantime, dont talk to him.
2006-09-07 19:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget about him. boys are nothing but trouble anyway.
2006-09-07 19:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by herekittykitty_07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋