Does it ever hurt any less? I was cheated on while I was pregnant. I am still thinking about it day in and day out. Will I ever get over it?
2006-09-07 12:38:14 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did you ever see the movie
with j-lo Enough
well you will know when you have had enough
I sincerly hope it does get better for you
but I know when a woman loves a man
it is not easy to walk away
so no sense for me to say
Kick him like a football
So hang in there until you know
Enough is enough
2006-09-07 12:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word your looking for is NO.(sorry) You now have his child which means it will haunt you and one day your child will ask you what went on. I my self have the same problem i found my girl in bed with some one else plus i have a child with her and i still think about it now and that was ten years ago and it hurts as well. But i will say this life dose get better o yes it dose you just have to do it for your self go places meet new people go out enjoy your self and stop moping or it will never get better.
2006-09-07 19:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but if it's been months you need counseling. You need to except it and know that it does happend. Letting go and forgiving is hard and it hurts... I know. Once it happend it rips your heart and kills you inside out, but not letting go is hurting even more. Learn to let go and you'll be o.kay. Lucky you find out this early, imagine you have more kids with him and be involve so deeply you can't even get out!!! That just a waste of your happiness. If you're still with him, move on. The baby can have a father without him being with you. It's more healthy for all of you, but I think he's not ready to settle down... remember, you're not the only one who went through this. Someone else went thought the same thing and they still live. Your happiness matter, if you can handle him cheating and he makes you happy still... then be with him. If he makes you miserable, leave and move on. Don't be angry anymore... for your own good.
2006-09-07 19:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by xp office 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will Angel but it will take some time.
Are you still with this person? If so you have a right to sit down and get some answers to some questions that I'm sure you have. Will it hurt? Yes it will but it will also help you to get over it quicker. There is no easy way out of this but I do wish you all of the luck that there is.
2006-09-07 20:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I feel so sad for you........how long ago was it? I hate to ask this but.....are you sure that you and the baby are healthy? He might have brought back a STD to you both. I honestly don't know if you will ever get over this, some people are more forgiving than others. If you haven't already, I would get tested for HIV at least. If your days and nights are spent in pain and doubt, you might have to make a change in your life.
2006-09-07 21:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by kitty-mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. However, you will never forget, and the trust is gone. So it's up to you, whether to choose to stay, and have the memory of his betrayal keep you in doubt and suspicion, or do you decide to leave, and start live over as a single mom. You are the only one that can make that decision for you, but always remember that you can be miserable all by yourself. Good luck! I will be praying for you.
2006-09-07 19:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by brownsugar_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the hurt will go always in time , just ask God to get you over this and he will help your heart, you will find love someday. just have hope. i know how it feels to be cheated on but the hurt go a way in time .and you can love again one day.
2006-09-07 20:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time, the pain will go away. There will still be days when you will have thoughts about it. Yes, you can get over it but it just takes time.
2006-09-07 19:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago was this? It takes a few weeks to a few months to get through that kind of hurt usually. If you cannot forgive and forget, seek counseling and an attorney.
2006-09-07 19:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by patbendrv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - you are not the reason the other person cheated. You need to work on building your own self esteem and not let this person keep on hurting you. I know it is hard but you can do it.
2006-09-07 19:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋