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Question

what age have you lost your virginity if not when are you planning to lose it?if yes have you thought about the consquences?were you really into it(like reall love) at the moment or was it peer pressure? are you still whit him/her now?

serious awnsers only

well i am still a virgin and planning to wait till marriage

or till im on my own

Answer 1

I haven't lost my virginity yet. I'm completely in love with my boyfriend, and I know he wants to.. truthfully I want to, too. I'm too scared about getting pregnant, though (I'd use protection, but I'm scared something would go wrong). I know he's upset that I don't want to, but not because I "won't put out." He just wants to have the experience with ME, and I feel the same way. I'm seventeen now, and I really don't know when I will have sex.

Answer 2

Okay Fellow Teenagers Please Read This.... Having sex isn't bad. Yeah all our parents don't want us to it..but its because they care about the consequences as much as we do and they care about you. I think any guy or girl that hasn't lost their virginity yet are really smart. Your less likely to catch a disease or have a baby. The ones who have lost it congrats but please use birth control and condoms. If you protect yourself your less likely to catch a disease or have an unplanned pregnancy. I might be Eight-Teen now but i lost my virginity when i 16 and kinda regret it. I didn't get pregnant or i haven't caught anything...its just if i would of wait 1 more year i would lost it to my true soul mate and not the puppy love boyfriend. So just wait...what's the rush for it. You want to know how it feels? Ask an adult. They'll tell you it feels good or great. Don't get influenced by drinking, smoking, peer pressure, or curiosity. Be happy with the desicion you might. Make sure its the right one. When you feel like its okay to have sex you will. Every one has a time when they are ready.

Answer 3

I lost my virginity at 15/16. I wasnt in love but i felt that the time was right..it just wasnt that big of a dal. no we aren't together anymore but im with an amazing man, im going to have my 1st child in about 3-4 months and i kind of wished i had waited. i thought about the consequences and i was always safe

Answer 4

I simply do not feel ready to kiss a guy and have a relationship, although I am 17. I just want to let things develop naturally, when I feel ready. About sex, well I am planning to wait up till marriage.

Answer 5

I lost it at 15. I do regret doing it with that certain person, because it was nothing but a one-night stand kind of thing (we never dated, just fooled around). I wasn't planning on losing it that night - I was kind of pressured, but it was mostly my curiousity.

But either way I would've lost it at 15, because my current boyfriend and I had sex before my sixteenth birthday. We've been going strong for almost 10 months now.

Answer 6

im still a virgin n plan 2 wait til i am completely sure i am in love n i dont mean absolutely marraige but dat mite work work out i am into reall love n i will never do it out of peer pressure

Answer 7

I lost my virginity to my soon-to-be-husband.
We were 16 at the time (best friends since the day we were born, had cribs next to each other in the hospital, joined-to-the-hip all our childhood, fell in love at 13), and we had been talking about it for months. Discussed our fantasys in detail, things we'd like to do...everything we could think of. When the time finally came around, we went ahead and got a room at a hotel. He bought 3 dozen roses, and scattered 2 of them (they were white, symbolizing purity) of them all over the bed and floor. He took the other dozen, which were red, and scattered them all into a vanilla bubble bath, which we then took and cuddled in. Had over 20 candles lit all over the place, made it back to the bed, and spent all day loving on each other. We exchanged wedding rings and said vows to each other. We consider that the day we got married...allot of people might find that insane...but in all honesty, thats what happens when you make love for the first time. You consumate a marriage.
Its been almost 3 years since then...and every time still feels like the first time.

As for consquences, there were no negative ones for us. I'd been on birth control since I first got my period (for medical reasons), so protection was never a cause of concern. Him breaking up with me and leaving me heartbroken has never even crossed my mind, because we have that much faith and trust in each other.
Actually, there is one, come to think of it. We became addicted to each other, lol. Not exactly sex-addicts...but always wanting to be close, wrapped up in each other. Not exactly covenient when you are spending the day with your family, lol.

Looking back on it now, we were young. My baby sister just turned 16, and it shocks me that we were her age when we first made love. But we dont regret it, because its helped made us who we are as a couple - and individuals - today. I wouldn't recomend it at that age to anyone of my friends, unless you know who you are, and what your relationship is. There has got to be complete honesty, trust and faith in each other...or else, it'll only cause pain in the end.

Hope I helped ;-)

Answer 8

I'm a virgin, and since I don't plan on marrying, I will stay one for the rest of my life.

Answer 9

great for you!! I am so glad that some people have high moral standards! I am also going to wait till marriage - I think it's worth the wait!

Answer 10

I was 14 and she was 19, I don't regret it, was I in love? No but I really liked her. It wasn't here first time and we were realy good friends. I havn't seen her in about 15 years and I think about her alot. You'll know when its right for you.