what would u have done ?

Question

I needed my soon 2 be ex husband 2 look at some papers concerning the mortgage. that had 2 be returned as soon as poss. i do not no when or what times he works, and he can not recive phone calls at work.so i sent him a text, explaining and asking him if he would get intouch. he did not, so i sent the same text for the next 5 days. on the 6 day i sent a text saying not to bother, and if he ever needed my help for anything not to ask. for the next 3 nights he has rang me, and i have not answered.

Answer 1

Good for you. Need papers signed? Use the Marshalls office

Answer 2

If I were you , I would have answered the call. You say the papers you needed to discuss with him were important,well you should have put aside any ill feeling you had towards him and spoke to him regarding the mortgage, then asked him what took him so long to get back to you.Maybe his phone wasn't working properly, whatever the reason you shouldn't have just assumed he was avoiding you.

Answer 3

I would of answered his call even if it was to only hear what he has to say, could he of been out of town on business or something? or was his phone on the blink? after you have listened to what he has got to say i would calmly tell him why you needed his help and that it was too important to be left for 6 days so you have sought the services of a solicitor. Tell him your trying to sort things out amicably and between yourselves and that he needs to be available to sort things out so they don't drag on for both of your sakes. I wouldn't shout or raise your voice as it will give him something to moan about. Then next time he rings leave it for a day before getting back to him to show that although your both having separate lives there's no need not to help each other at some point.

Answer 4

well if the papers are so important, dont you kinda HAVE to talk to him at some stage?
Personally speaking I think you're as immature as each other - sure divorces arent supposed to be easy, but its both your lives it affects and I think ye both need to grow up and get it sorted.
As for him not returning your texts - maybe he was involved in meetings or something, or ill, or lost his phone - you never know - I think you should return his call and just get this sorted.

Answer 5

look 2 wrongs dont make a write!

he is like this because he doesnt want a divorce he wants to love u forever ans ever he wants to have kids if he didnt love u he wouldnt of loved u in the first place. just maybe u should just not think about the divorce and work things out first like where r u guys gonna live and maybe u 2 might get back together

Answer 6

I have the same situation as you but since we don't own a house together its just the children that I need info on for the divorce papers, and yeah each time I need to talk to him he always tell me I don't want to talk at this time or I'll call you back and he don't so when he calls me i just ignore his phone calls so I now how you feel but the more I ignore him the more he try to make a pass it me to make me talk to him but it's his lost not mine.

Answer 7

I would pick up the phone and talked to him about theses papers unless you can find someone else to help you with them,sometimes you just have to play there game as well

Answer 8

I can understand why you didn't answer but at the next phone call, answer, get the papers signed so you can get on with your life.

Answer 9

Why did you stoop to his games? You want this resolved, I would have answered the phone on the first ring. As soon as this is settled you can move on with the rest of your life.

Answer 10

I would have answered the phone since the papers were important.