its been four days now and i really cant keep it, how can i termainate it ? would the day after pill work but its bin 3 and a couple of hours before i get the pill, ??? please help
2006-09-07 12:24:25 · 17 answers · asked by lady kia 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
yeah well am not pergnant just 4 dys since i ve had sex i think i may be .... god ... and it wasnt my fault if i got raped
2006-09-07 12:31:08 · update #1
my sister in law had exactly the same problem and it turned out that all the symptoms she was having that were leading to pregnancy was infact a phantom pregnancy which means that your mind works your body in to a state that you show signs of pregnancy when infact you are'nt. she would never have got rid of it though as she thinks that it is murder and a sick thing to do as she thinks that it is not the babies fault how it was concieved however she does understad why people do this and it is not your fault so just do what ever you feel. it is a bit too early to tell if you are pregnant though so dont worry just yet and dont work yourself into a state as this makes things worse for you. just wait until the time is right to do a test and then go from there, just do what is best for you and not anyone else, good luck and i hope that everthing turns out ok for you
2006-09-08 13:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you're panicking. Take a few deep breaths and try to calm down. Go and see your doctor and tell him/her what's happened and how you're feeling. No-one else has a right to tell you what to do or to judge you. The decision is yours and yours alone, and that is how it should be. If it does turn out that you are pregnant, you should definitely think very carefully before deciding to have an abortion. If you do consider adoption, you will probably want to do all you can to make sure the child has a good chance of being adopted at all, rather than spending his life in a care home. I am told there are not that many couples who want to adopt, especially as many prefer to try IVF several times first. Even so, adoption might be an option you could live with more easily than ending the pregnancy. But remember, ultimately it is your choice and no-one else has a say.
2006-09-08 03:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late for the 'morning after' pill I'm afraid, however you are still within the window for a chemical termination rather than a surgical one.
Go see your GP, explain the situation, they can give you a 3(?) day course of hormones that convince your body it wants to have a period. Womb lining and embryo come out.
Be advised: It f*cks with your head. Physically (due to the massive inrush of hormones) and psychologically (you are ending a pregnancy) ... but if your GP is anyone other than Harold Shipman they will make sure you get the best help possible and will discuss it with you.
Only 4 days ... sure you're pregnant?
2006-09-07 19:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can you get the morning after pill when you are already pregnant? the pill can only stop a egg being fertilised it cant kill an embryo
If you have unprotected sex you have 72 hours in which to take the morning after pill, if you havent by then you're too late and you should go see your doctor for a pregnancy test.
go see your doctor and tell him you want to get rid of it. they can sometimes do a termination on the nhs (just say your parents will kill YOU if they find out/feed them a sob story)
next time dont have sex, you sounda kinda too slow to be doing it in the first place
2006-09-07 19:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor. If you really can't, go to a good pharmacy and ask about the morning after pill.
Why did you wait this long honey? Please look after yourself. Don't have sex with a man unless he will be there for you afterwards.
Good luck - I hope it works out well for you.
2006-09-07 19:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time use a cindom or do not have sex if you do not want to bring a life into the world. My advice would be to give the baby up for adoption don't kill a life that did not ask to be here
2006-09-07 19:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by destiny_eyes 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go to your doctor honey...he will be able to tell you what to do AND in future contracepttion a good idea + report the B.....d that raped you
2006-09-07 19:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Denise W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
aww,r u ok chic,dont worry,fone the docs in the mornin,or later dependin wer in the world u r.and they will let u no wot happens from there.good luck ul b ok..
2006-09-07 20:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by onlymedear7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was true i really dont think that you would be broadcasting it to everybody.........
GO TO THE DOCTORS!!!!!!
Thats what they are there for.........
Asking on here isnt going to do n e thing!!!!!!
Sorry for being harsh.....just get wound up by some ppl on here.....
2006-09-07 19:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by brunettebabe_2105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to a Dr as soon as possible they will give you the best advice, along with whatever options are available
2006-09-07 19:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋