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me and my husband have know each other for 6 yrs and have been married for two....we have two kids and love each other very much....i just want some ideas on what i can do to show him i appreciate him...like an extraordinary date or if you are guys reading this, give me some pointers on what you would like your girl or wife to do to you that would put a smile on your face....im always trying to do something different in our relationship cause he does the same....help a sista out

2006-09-07 12:06:52 · 23 answers · asked by sweetbooty12 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Try something spontaneous....like a sexual encounter in a forbidden place, or outside somewhere when he least expects it. If he's crazy about ''oral pleasures'' ( like my Hubby is) do something wild an crazy in a new place. Or maybe dress up like a super star, ( a female he like, using a wig, outfit, make-up, etc), and wait for him in your bedroom, and when he walks in say: ''Hey handsome, is your wife home''? And then SOCK IT TO HIM!!! (;

2006-09-07 13:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0 0

Here are just a few ideas. You could put the kids to bed, then light candles, put on some slow moving music, and give him a head to toe body massage. You could order his favorite magi zine as a gift, even if you don't care for it. Find out what he likes and usually it's something you won't but that is not important, cause its all about doing for him,and that's what you re looking for. Buy him some tickets to his favorite event, send him a single white rose at work and sign it your secret admirer. Cook him his favorite meal.These are just a few suggestions.Buy a card for him , even when there is no reason, cause the real reason is you love him and he is just that special.

2006-09-07 12:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by highpriestess7@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0 0

The first thing you should do is show him. Put little notes of love and encouragement in his pockets, make sure he'll find them. Slip in after a hard day of work with a nice back rub. Give him that one thing he has been asking for. (You know what that is) Remember, your that proverbs 31 woman. Now, "Go Figure"

2006-09-07 12:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0 0

Its no doubt that guys have ego's (some more than others of course). Boosting a guys ego is probably the best way to show a guy you appreciate him. Tell him how great he is at stuff he does around the house or for the family, how you couldn't be who you are without him, how happy he makes you....but of course don't make things up just to boost his ego. And treat him to a night in the bedroom, guys always love to feel that their partner wants them, and that they satisfy their partner in the bedroom.

2006-09-07 12:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by the red 2 · 0 0

Hello Mrs. Sweetbooty1, Just keep showing him in your touch, smile, kiss, lovemaking. Set up anight with candles,wine ,soft music, rosepetals on silk sheets and floating on top of the bubblebath glowing by candle light only< His favorite perfume you wear all over the pillows, and a good dinner for TWO.The key to whatever is appreciation.

2006-09-07 12:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy F 1 · 0 0

You know all the men are gonna say something nasty............

but I like to pamper my husband with a good massage either by me or a paid professional. Have someone watch the kids and have a quiet evening at home - cook dinner, watch a movie and just relax together.......or you could have a threesome - that would always put a smile on his face. Sorry....i couldnt resist.

2006-09-07 12:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0 2

hay i would take my husband out to eat at a romantic dinner,then go to the house and put some love music on andcut all lights off and light candles and put on some sexy clothes feed him some strawberries deep in chocolate.girl it will be on he will never forget it.

2006-09-07 12:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by lisa j 1 · 0 0

Sometimes just have a night alone without your kids and just have a romantic dinner. Or you can just
plan times for yall to go out, and sometimes yall can have a family night out but spend alot of time with your family.

2006-09-07 12:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by T.T. 1 · 1 0

this is what works for our marriage. it's the small little things that matter to us. example: coffee on the night stand when he wakes up from alarm clock. with orange juice too. the "Thank yous" , Can I help in any way? these are things that we all want from out mates. appreciation. help, consideration. things that are not expected. the gift of giving of yourself. this is my opinion.

2006-09-07 13:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0 0

Tough to answer based on your questions. For suggestions, please add more info on him. The only way you will know is by REALLY knowing his likes and dislikes and depending on your budget and occassion, go from there. For example: When I was married, I knew my hubby was into soccer. Loved to play and watch. So, for our first wedding anniversary, I bought him 2 season tickets to the Chicago Fire. He was thrilled!

2016-03-17 10:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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