I have been having kinda like fantasies of doing it with a girl. I can find myself looking at girls once in a while. I have never had an experience with one though. Could I be bi?
2006-09-07 12:05:55 · 21 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sorry, I kinda meant bi curious.
2006-09-07 12:11:30 · update #1
you're just horny....
2006-09-07 12:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by megmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with this question is that it assumes that you were born with a particular sexual orientation. The evidence is that you may have been born with a certain degree of susceptibility, but whether or not you dwell on same-sex attraction is your choice. Your behavior is your choice. A lot of what you find attractive depends on the influence of the world around you.
What I am saying is that you are neither bi nor straight. You are a product of your environment coupled with the way you choose to react to that environment.
You don't want to be bi, so avoid the thoughts of attraction that you have when you look at other girls. Kind of like the way you would avoid thoughts of killing someone. Having such thoughts does not make you a killer, but if you keep fantasizing about it you may find yourself in trouble some day. Chances are you won't, but I wouldn't take the chance if I were you.
2006-09-07 19:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be. Or you could just have an active fantasy life.
It is cool to have fantasies that you NEVER act out. They are there just for the value of keeping your mind active and alive.
On the other hand, if you are drawn to women, maybe one day when you're in a safe situation, you can try it. Just make sure that whatever happens, you maintain respect for yourself and ther other woman.
Only after you've been there and tried it can you say you are truly bisexual. But why get hung up on a label anyway. You're open minded, that's for sure.
2006-09-07 22:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You being female and looking at another females body does not mean you are bi. It goes back to caveman days. Your insticts are strickly checking out the competition. Now a days most of the mindset of how women look is al about sex. If you constantly think about how it would feel like to be emotionally and sexually with a girl find a friend so is bisexual and say hey..i'm not sure if would or would like to be bi...experiment...
2006-09-07 19:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by xxsn0w_r4v3nxx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I Had Fanasies About The Same Thing, And Come To Find Out I Didn't really Like it...Just try it and see if you like it...i would say that u are just curious...good luck to ya...
2006-09-07 20:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty normal for a female to think like you do. Female's brain tend to interact differently than males. They're more curious when it comes to sexual desires. Or maybe you are! But hey wouldn't hurt to taste both right?
2006-09-07 19:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by REEMPIRE888 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who knows only u know but even if u r there is nothing wrong wit that but im not bi or anything im just saying i am not the kind of girl to juge people
2006-09-07 19:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by daddys lil girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,just curious.
2006-09-07 19:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it sounds like it. Just take time and explore your feelings, and don't worry about those pesky, stuffy labels.
2006-09-07 19:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know cuz i do the same thing and I haven't been with a girl!
2006-09-07 19:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes .and if you want you can im me and we can talk.get to know one another and if you want i can give you a cyber bath baby girl.i think i have your picture on my 360 page i asked you to be on it.so if i do we can be friends.and we can have fun together.
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2006-09-08 03:37:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋