I'm nineteen and i swear, if i spend another night in my room alone! i just don't know what i'm going to do!!!! I need to get out, seriously
someone anyone help!
2006-09-07 12:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that's just it i'm tired of being alone having nothing to do on the weekend! I need friends please somene with valuable advice help me!
2006-09-07 12:08:14 · update #1
Yes i'm in school, i go full-time, i have two online classes and two on campus, both campus classes are at night.
2006-09-07 12:12:03 · update #2
Learn to do stuff by yourself
2006-09-07 12:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a job seems to be a good way to make friends, especially if you have a job in a large company. I didn't have many friends right out of high school because I'd just moved. I didn't know anyone, but I got a job at the biggest grocery store in town, and I had all kinds of people to choose from. I suggest going to different business, grocery stores, retail shops, restaurants, etc, and picking a place to apply where there are lots of people your age.
Also, being in school helps, too. You can take just one class, and not only will you get to meet people, but you'll get college credit for it, too!
At 19, there aren't very many ways to just meet folks out of the blue, unless you just walk up to folks, but that's just plain weird. Well, not to me, but most people shy away from that kind of boldness.
So, go to college or get a job at a large company. You don't have to stay in the job, especially if you don't end up liking it. Just use it to your advantage.
2006-09-07 19:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in school? Try joining an organization. Or volunteer for a cause that interests you. Network! I know how you feel, but no one is going to come knocking on your door. Use the Internet to find a service organization that interests you and volunteer for something. You'll meet people. Network with them to find out what is going on in your community. Only you can end your isolation.
Good luck and God bless you.
2006-09-07 19:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some kind of class. Band, Theatre, Music, Dance, Art, etc. Anything u like. Then not only will you meet people, but you'll have the same interests.
Or if u don't mind, go to penpal websites like penpalsnow.com, and write what kind of penpals you'd like. Where they live, they're age, you pick.
2006-09-07 19:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all alone, by yourself.
Lights low, incense burning, just the right kind of music in the background. . .a little alcohol, not too much, for as Shakespeare said, that as it increases the desire, it decreases the ability.
Take your time.
2006-09-07 19:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea TALK to them! Be yourself girl! Go for it! And good luck. You can be my friend too.
2006-09-07 19:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chuch work
2006-09-07 19:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can e-mail me.
2006-09-07 19:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT AND MEET PEOPLE!!!!!!
2006-09-07 19:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋