What does it mean when a guy doesn't buy you flowers or gifts for holidays. Doesn't surprise me by taking me out to dinner. We are planning on getting married in like a year. But he hasn't proposed yet. I ask him and he hasn't, and I don't want to start planning a wedding until he puts a ring on my finger to confirm it. We have a 2 month old together and the relationship is ok for living with the "in-laws"....although it has gone downhill since living with them. He is 37 and I am 23. He proposed to an ex-girlfriend years ago. So I know he has it in him. So do you think he doesn't care about me?
2006-09-07 11:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
baby girl, it's more complicated than that. 1 either he was rejected by ex when he proposed. and didn't like the feeling of rejection. 2. wedding is expensive, sounds like he's pretty tight.
3. you both are living together, what else more does he want. baby girl, he cares but you need to get him out of his comfort zone.
2006-09-07 11:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure whether or not he cares about you, but he sounds like a looser imo. There is a big age gap here and you have a kid. He probably wasn't looking into getting into a long relationship but then you got pregnant. Now he may feel he is stuck with you. I buy my girl flowers/gifts on every holiday(valentines, birthday, and Christmas), and try to make it special for her. I also take her out to dinner all the time.
I would talk to him and let him know how you feel about the situation. I'm not sure why you are living with the in-laws, but you are very young and maybe you should let him figure out his life first before you guys complicate it more.
2006-09-07 19:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by drewstealth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't ask him and don't plan a thing until he asks you. Also why does a 37 y/o man need to live with his parents!!!! Good god, he should have a good job by now and be taking care of you and the little one. It is very stressful living with others, in-laws or not, no matter how nice or not nice they are. It is their place and their rules. Plus how can you have any time alone with him, your child, whatever....you know the old line....he's just not that into you.........start to figure out plan B, because you need to get out of the relationship. He is no keeper!
2006-09-07 18:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello i am so sorry that you are going through this, i know the feeling, i know its hard dealing with a guy that is showing u basically no emtion.or not doing anything nice for u . it seems like u are unahppy, and that is unfair, do not let anyone even him deny of something that is so imporatant, your happiness. why should you contiue to wonder , be strong and ask him where you stand with him ,that way you will know and then you can go from there.... i hope things work out.
2006-09-07 18:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of, he's a 37 year old living with mommy and daddy, second he proposed to his ex but never married her... doesn't buy you gifts on holidays, doesn't take you out... if i where you i wouldn't care if he didn't care... you need to find yourself a man, and being old doesn't make you a man... find yourself someone who knows how to treat a lady
2006-09-07 18:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by burning_on_the_angry_chair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he cares about you but isn't really good at expressing it. Just tell him whats bothering you and ask him how he feels. If ghe does really love you, give him pointers on what you'd like him to do because he might just not know.
2006-09-07 18:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by La-Vie-En-Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably cares about you, but he might be taking you for granted.
Have you tried talking to him about it? Maybe you could tell him you need a little more romance in your relationship.
2006-09-07 18:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by johntadams3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be deciding on getting you something just right and perfect for you if this is going on for further time talk to him and be very romance about it!
2006-09-09 09:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Holly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read my answer to another question! and then think about yourself what you are. Then you may decide!
2006-09-07 18:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, you whiny woman. Jesus Christ.
2006-09-07 18:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by cdrfish 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋