Im really worried about the 500 dollar bill to the abortion clinic.
Can Anyone recommend where she can get it done for less?
Most I can pay is 350 cash money.
2006-09-07 11:24:26 · 25 answers · asked by ast5792 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're right, abortion is NOT right, and you need to do what you can to save your son or daughter. Your child's life is at stake here. Take a look at this information and share it (in a calm, loving way) with your girlfriend:
Photos of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
You can get lots of totally free, confidential help at a pregnancy care center. They can give you and your girlfriend referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free ultrasounds (at some centers); free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; and counseling and emotional support. Give them a chance to see how they can help. You can find a center near you here:
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
or by calling 1-800-395-HELP.
2006-09-11 02:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not sure what you are thinking is not right - the abortion or the 500 bucks, 'cause I can tell you one thing - it costs a helluva lot more than 500 bucks for child support for 18 years! If it's abortion you think is not right, talk to her about exploring other options, like adoption. There are so many wonderful couples in the world who are unable to have children and the waiting lists are so very long. Make sure you are working with a very reputable adoption agency. Abortion and adoption carry some heavy emotional baggage that she might not be prepared for. I'm not advocating either option, just wanting to make sure she knows what her options are. In the end, it's her choice.
2006-09-07 18:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by CHERYL E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gives us free will. Abortion is a very serious issue. Would you kill a one year old baby? I bet you wouldn't. So, don't do this to this one child. You guys may regret for the rest of your lives. I am sure you are confused now but I also am sure there are a lot of people willing to help you. Consider that. Do not kill an innocent baby. He or she may be someone who will make ALL the difference in our lives some day. Not mentioning that your girl friend may not have another baby anymore depending on what people on these Clinics do to her. What's more: some day she may feel bad about what she did to her baby and this act may destroy your both lives. Good luck and God bless.
2006-09-07 18:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Cook 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, you weren't ready for the responsibilities that come with sex.
Also, you're still thinking in a selfish manner, rather than considering the lives you have affected. On the one hand, you say "it's not right" but on the other hand you bring up money (as if that's really an issue when you consider the free clinics you could use).
Ultimately, it's the girl's right and descision as to whether she gets an abortion or not.
And it's ultimately YOUR descision to WEAR A CONDOM NEXT TIME!
2006-09-07 18:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe give your child to adoption, why you want to stop his/her life?
CONSIDERING AN ABORTION?
My dear friend,
We understand the difficulties you are going through. Perhaps you feel that an abortion is the only solution available to you.
But the fetus in your womb is a real child waiting to be born. He is alive. It’s important that you understand the full implications of terminating your pregnancy prior to making a decision.
What is an abortion? Abortion means ending the life of child who is not sufficiently developed to survive outside its mother’s womb.
Although the vast majority of abortions are performed on socio-economic grounds, an abortion does not resolve financial or social difficulties. Very often, the psychological scars caused by an abortion only serve to complicate existing problems. Sometimes, it takes women a lifetime to resolve these issues.
Economic and social problems can be worked out. Situations can - and do - change. But a life can never be restored.
In our thirty years of experience educating women, we have never seen a woman who regretted having her baby.
Just ask any one of the over eighteen thousand women who, thanks to EFRAT’s intervention, chose to give birth.
2006-09-07 18:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by yonilobo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you 2 should have thought of some kind of prevention methods, cause that's the main purpose for sex, is to produce children.
Obviously this child was made and was meant to be here for some reason, your here for a reason, shes here for a reason, and you guys wanna take that away.
http://abortiontruth.com
That will tell you what happens, what they have to do and even some pictures of these aborted fetuses and the techniques they use to do this. It is quite sick
I hope you both think twice before doing this, if you don't want the child, someone else does.
2006-09-07 18:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by feel_n_learn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do regarding this issue. If you feel that strongly against the abortion, then do not pay for half. It is not your choice. That is not to say if she wanted to keep the child, and you did not you'd be off the hook. That sounds pretty reasonable price depending where you are from. Check into Planned Parenthood. They charge according to income.
2006-09-07 18:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the baby is going to cost a lot more than $500 when it gets here...diapers, wipes, formula, clothes, etc. If neither of you are ready financially and emotionally for this baby, you need to make the decision..maybe you can put it up for adoption? I have never been in this situation, i think it may depend on what state you live in. Have you tried doing an internet google search? try planned parenthood?
2006-09-07 18:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all you're worried about is how much its gonna cost you rather than the morality of it. Morally, it's not right. But, if she want's to have an abortion, there is nothing you can do to stop it. After all, it is her body, and you are responsible for the bill.
2006-09-07 18:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a great guy you are. !! kids cost a lot of money and your worried about 500.00 what an asshole. Think of what shes going thro. Have you to considered adoption verses abortion. it is not the babys fault http://www.abortionfacts.com/ is a help center for pregnancy and abortion facts i beleive you should check out this sight also their are adoption sights everywhere i was adopted. My parents chose life over murder.http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
2006-09-07 18:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋