this guy asked me to the homecoming dance today. he is sweet, but i just dont like him. how should i tell him i dont want to go with him and let him down easily?
2006-09-07 11:19:31 · 16 answers · asked by chiefs_daughter1900 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell him that you already have a date but if you didnt then you would be more than glad to go with him, but you already have a date.
2006-09-07 11:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by stressed&depressed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello, How do I tell him, Here's the story 13 years ago I was asked to the movies by one of my brothers Friends, i really didn't want to go either and for me at that time age 17 it was a social thing what if my piers seen me. but I did go and had a great time and went again and again and guess what we are married with two kids now. so my advise would be make sure your not making a mistake by telling him no, if it's about what others will think like almost did. and if you are sure just tell him how you really feel, the truth is always the best policy but nicely GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-07 18:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by mrsmgriffin222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. It is best in these kind of situations not to lie to the guy. Tell him you think he is really sweet but you just don't think of him in that way. Maybe if you don't find another date you could go with him just as friends.
2006-09-07 18:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Christinamk227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea-be honest. It is impossible not to hurt him feelings a little bit. Maybe you should give him a try if you are not going with anyone else though. He could turn out to be a great friend and someone you never expected him to be!
But, yea, totally be honest! I met my husband because I went to homecoming with someone I barely knew. :)
2006-09-07 18:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Alison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go tell him that he is a very sweet guy but you just want 2 go with him
2006-09-07 19:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest , just let him know you are not interested in going with him , if that doesn't work , tell him you already have a date or say that you and your girls wanna make this a girls nite
2006-09-07 18:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you told us, you think he is sweet but you just don't want to go with him.
2006-09-07 18:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T play game with him
it is always hard to tell someone no
so be sensitive
if you already have a date say I am sorry but I already promise that I 'll go with someone elsed/anything
Don't mention that you don't like him
2006-09-07 18:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, tell him no, your not interested in him in that way, tell him that the only way you will go with him is if he accepts that you are only going as a friend.
2006-09-07 18:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that's how my freind was, this guy wanted to go to the prom with her and she didn't like him so don't go with him if your not gonna like it and he may feel sad or mad or both but you don't like him why bother go, if you go with him he might think YOU like him and you don't
2006-09-07 18:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by helse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋