i don't talk a lot and plus i am shy
any ideas from ppl WHO GOT over this problem
2006-09-07 11:08:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Games & Recreation ➔ Other - Games & Recreation
You know those naked dreams we always have? Do that!
2006-09-07 11:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions. If you manage to make eye contact in a social setting and the person seems amenable to conversation, start by asking general questions. Listen to the answer and think about what the person said and you can usually think of a follow-up question to ask. Every now and then you can throw in a comment of your own, but I've found it's easier to be social when someone else is the focus of attention rather than myself.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-07 18:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good quote on this subject is, "If you want to make a friend, be a friend" :) I think just figuring out what this means to you will be helpful in a general sense. There are quite a few specific, nuts and bolts kinds of things to do too, and I'm sure you'll get a lot of good suggestions from others on these. Good luck :)
2006-09-07 18:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by zofo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult for a Girl, Men can go to the pub on there own and get involved in a chat. If a Woman did that she would give the wrong impressions (society is a git).
Try a Good Chat room, not one full of pervs and tossers.
2006-09-07 18:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Phil H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, Get a job working with the public. waitress,cashier,etc... In this type of environment, you will learn to deal with many different situations. good and bad. Both will help you grow as a person and overcome your fear! Always remember...it's not WHAT happened but HOW you handle it! Keep your chin up, and have faith in yourself. You never know, maybe one day you will be the one giving this advice to someone who needs it ; ) I know you can do it! I did........good luck and take care!!!!
2006-09-07 18:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) NEVER alter your way of being. Get friends who accept you the way you are.
2)TAKE YOUR TIME. There's no rush; there's always time for friends.
3)Instead of staying in on a friday night, go out, find some friends.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-07 18:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by cristaline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just have knoledge on current events and listen to teh conversation
2006-09-07 18:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
build some self esteem and be proud of yourself
2006-09-08 05:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by tony_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes always were your sunglasses to hid your eyes.Just be your self.
2006-09-07 18:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk i got the same problem!!!!
2006-09-07 18:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by tubesoxrok666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋