today at school some guy came up and was feeling me all over and rubbing my BUTT, so i pushed him and kicked him in the shin. i go to a catholic school, so they don't believe in violence at all. he got in trouble, but so did i!! i don't think i should have!! does this sound fair to you guys? i have saturday detention for 3 weeks. and he just has detention after school for next week. what can i do about it? should i revolt? call the school director?
2006-09-07 11:08:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think your parents should get involved if you were defending yourself. Sexual Harassment is no small thing.
2006-09-07 11:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who live by feeling up and retailiating will be sentenced to detention. This sexual harassment thing is overboard. Remember, we are dealing with a Catholic school where pedophilia was looked the other way.
He felt you up, 1 week detention and sexual harassment OUTSIDE the Catholic Church.
You hurt him physically, 3 weeks detention.
The Sisters did the right thing. You can always press criminal charges against him in Juvenile court.
2006-09-07 18:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should revolt! Tell your mom, tell everyone! That boy was sexually harassing you and you had ever right to kick him in the shin! He deserved much worse than that! Next time aim for his groin!
2006-09-07 18:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Christinamk227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your parent's involved. Call the school directer and ask him why you are receiving such a strong punishment for defending yourself against sexual harrassment, and if that doesn't help,contact the editor of the local newspaper.
2006-09-07 20:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by mamasheilag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a guidance counselor or call the school director this ins't fair .If that dude came up to me I would probably send him to a hospital and kick him so hard in the balls he''ll regret what he did.Go tell the school director
2006-09-07 18:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO GIRL for kicking the guy in the shin you should def tell the teacher that he felt you if not tell your parents
2006-09-07 19:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by helse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you make it clear that you were being sexually harassed? Make sure EVERYONE knows--teachers, administrators, directors, especially your parents. If you use the term "sexual harassment" you will be taken more seriously, and that is what you experienced.
2006-09-08 16:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by windsoftheheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents need to get involved. That's the craziest thing I have ever heard. You shouldn't be in any trouble at all. I call that self defence.
2006-09-07 18:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call the school director. That doesn't seem fair at all.
2006-09-07 18:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents and explain what happened , he should by all right get into far more trouble then you , he had no right violating you like that and even tho your in a cathlic school it should not matter you didnt do anything wrong please talk to your parents please they should help with this i sure would , good luck and bless you , sad to know your in any trouble he should get suspended at the least
2006-09-07 18:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by Duane G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋