my bf of five months dumped me after i got a positive pregnancy test 3 actually. i felt sad and alone he told me no guy would ever date me . i decided to go out and flirt to prove him wrong and ended up meeting someone else that i met at my college orientation he asked me out and we totally hit it off he has no idea i am pregnant only that i hate my ex. bf and there was some emotional trauma. we have almost everything in common. is this wrong???? i really wish i never got pregnant. now am 4 weeks preganant should i just see where it goes? and carry on like nothing? i honestly dont now how to tell him. i think i am falling for him hard just as he is for me. afraid my ex. bf might though out of spite.
2006-09-07 10:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you like him you better tell him...because if you don't it WILL blow up in your face. It is never good to lie, and especially not to start out a relationship with a lie. Do not lie to him (or hold the truth). If you two have hit it off just tell him that you are barely pregnant and just found out recently, and you don't expect him to be there, blah blah blah, etc...if he likes you as much as you claim then he will not be scared off, and if he is then you are better off knowing now until waiting for later to find out (because by then you will be even more hooked on him). Keeping the truth from someone not only causes stress on yourself (and you don't need that with being pregnant) but it may hurt the other person as well
2006-09-07 11:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him so much and things might go further then you should definately tell him .And if he likes you so much then he would support you and help you take care of the child. But you need to tell him as soon as possible so he doesnt think you were trying to hide it from him and then he won't trust you anymore. and trust is a huge part of a relationship. you ex is definately a jerk for dumping you because you're pregnant.. sounds like he's got some issues. But you totally did the right thing by moving on and not lingering on the past.
2006-09-07 18:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your baby to have a decent future he needs a proper parent.Ur bf doesnt seem to be serious or atleast undecided.Once the kid is there it shall be more difficult to move into a new relationship and u may end up regretting ur decisions.As for this guy u may not hurry with the news.Decide about the baby and let your relationship prosper.Once u have won his trust he shall probably not worry too much about ur past
2006-09-07 18:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tom Cruise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to tell him the truth NOW before this goes any further. You never know he might just stick by you and any decision you make. Good luck!:-)
2006-09-07 17:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up now or he will end up leaving you for deceiving him when he does find out. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.
2006-09-07 18:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Admiral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋