Shouldn't love make you do crazy things..but in a positive way? Then, what's the purpose behind the lying? Is it that there is no appreciation involved until its finally lost?
Honest Opinion
2006-09-07 10:28:28 · 5 answers · asked by Lina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately my dear most people do not realize what they really do have until they have indeed lost it. Just like most people don't realize how much better it is to be a virgin until they lose it. For some reason alot of people feel that they need to lie to protect their loved ones, but what they do not realize that in the long run being honest would have been the best thing to do because almost always the person you are lying to ends up finding out another way and then it is even worse and sometimes unforgivable. I my dear have never lied to my boyfriend of 1 yr and 8 months even though he has done some crazy not so good things to me. But when you love someone you should NEVER LIE to them, people need to stop and think really hard about how they really felt the last time someone lied to them. I wish you luck.
2006-09-07 10:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by cheryl m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what goes on through their minds. I feel as if my dude is really digging me, but I know he lied to me in a major way about an issue with his babymama. I knew he was lying, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt cause I didn't know what his intentions were. I waited and held my tongue cause I'm really digging him 2. By me waiting on his actions, everything has cleared itself without all the drama. He was in a situtation he didn't want to be in at the same time not wanting to hurt or lose me. Now, the issue is resolved without any drama. If u feel u are being lied to, just chill on it first, if it gets rational, get out of it quick. If u start to put the pieces of the puzzles together u can see the outcome before it actually presents itself. Don't put it out there until u know he is definitely lying cause if he is not, u will look a DAMN fool and you lose!
2006-09-07 17:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by menyauna s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to have their cake and eat it too. They will lie to be able to do whatever they want. They might say they love you but really dont. If they are lying and not worried about it ruining the relationship then they dont love you.
2006-09-07 17:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it happens, but I don't know why its sooo widely practiced!
2006-09-07 17:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to stop them from nagging, because some of them are paranoid bitches.
2006-09-07 17:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by greekmaverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋