everytime i want to hang out he got a reason not to.I cut class today to hang out with him but he saw a diffent freind and left me alone.(not the first time i might add)He call me his closest friend in my school but doesnt act like it.He act like i am a 2st rate freind and by this i mean he treact everyone else better than me.Suck that the fact that guy code does not really let me show any feeling.I alway defened him when people had called him gay.He my closest freind i got in that school but the fact he does not like to hang out with me is pissing me off.I told him about that but he said i was crazy.So should i dutch him?
2006-09-07 10:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by armando p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you think he is your best bud but it doesnt sound like you are his best bud. Dont skip classes for him or anyone else. Dont give up anything for him. If he values you as a bud he will stop letting you down. Sometimes if you play hard to get, poeople want you more. You can do better. Find a better friend.
2006-09-07 10:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by angeldust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's time to ditch the guy. You never know how things will turn out over time. Relationships never stay the same, and sometimes one person or the other will develop new interests, or meet new people, and focus on that, or them, for a while. This time, he's the one exploring new things. Next time, it will probably be you. If you want to be friends for the long haul, let him have this time to try new things, and just be glad to see him whenever you do.
Meantime, it's time for you to do some exploring on your own. Somewhere out there are other people who will like you. What are you interested in? What do you like to do? If, for example, you like to skateboard, try the skateboard parks. Go where people are doing the things you like to do, and you'll meet people you have something in common with - and it won't matter so much to you what this other guy is doing, because you'll be so busy with your own life.
2006-09-07 17:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem as you but my reasons are slightly different from you...I haven't told her anything! I just behave the same way as her and believe me,it pisses her off!! I know,its the wrong thing to do,but am kinda helpless!! Am not telling you to do this..If you have the guts,which i don't have,just dutch him!!! It will be better for him and for you too....
2006-09-07 17:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by zed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make other friends, he should spend time with you if he is meant to be your friend, If he treated me second rate to others i would nto even talk to him. let him have the other friends ignore him show your not bovered and don,t have time for him, and don,t show him you are upset make new freinds he was your friend when he needed you but he is not now. forget him. You deserve a better friend.
2006-09-07 17:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definetly. If u keep on giving him attention without him wanting it he knows that he can get it whenever time he wants and u will b there. dump him and it will make him realize what kind of good friend he actually had
2006-09-07 17:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by the big guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r yall??
he might be hanging out w/ a gurl
u sound young
2006-09-07 17:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some time to do his own thing,he will come around.
2006-09-07 17:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-07 17:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would - b/c it seems he isnt tell you something - and if he really is your true firend he would acknowledge your feelings and try to fix it
2006-09-07 17:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kat B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend.
2006-09-07 17:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋