my lube in the bathroom! im sure he already knows that i masturbate but wat should i say if he confronts me about it?! i kno for sure thats it going to be awkward but wat can i say to make it go smoothly?!
2006-09-07 10:23:20 · 17 answers · asked by A J 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Just let it pass. He probably used a lube when he was younger too, and he might even still do it now.
And of course he would know you masturbait, close to 100% of males do.
Go to www.healthystrokes.com for more information... lots of good questions and answers there.
2006-09-07 10:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would be a pretty poor father and rather strange if he mentioned it at all. Almost all adult men, including married men, continue to masturbate throughout their adult life. They do it for stress relief, to fill in gaps when their partner is not available or in the mood etc.
So you and your father now have something in common. If I were you, I'd keep the lube in your bedroom from now on, rather than in a shared bathroom; but I'd be surprised if you hear anything from him about it. If you do say "I'm just following your example dad!"
2006-09-07 10:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know we dads actually do remember being young. Most of us still feel pretty young. He should be cool about it as he once did the same thing if he doesn't continue to do so now. Try to relax and remember that this is really not a big deal. It will be a good chuckle in another ten years.
2006-09-07 10:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweetie - he probably won't say a thing or else you will go into your room and you may find your lube laying on your dresser.
2006-09-08 09:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Marine Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's laughing his a$$ off. not a big deal. i have 12 yr old twin boys and i know that day is right around the corner if not already here. if he says anything just say "ok dad, and your point is?"
2006-09-07 10:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by the greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Your Dad already knows what you do. Chances are, he uses lube, too. If he asks you; ask him if he uses lube or au natural?
2006-09-07 10:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does not bring it up then I would just let it go and make no comment about it !!
Hey he probley is not shocked, after all he was young once too.
2006-09-07 11:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably won't say anything. I'm sure he has some too. BTW.. how do you know he found it if he didn't say anything?
2006-09-07 11:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by someone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably won't say anything, but if he does, tell him the truth as all boys do it, even him.
2006-09-07 10:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you were lubing your hair with a new conditioner
2006-09-07 10:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋