I been dating this guy for 3 weeks now. The first incident that happend was I had a bad day at work and I called him and he was with a couple of his friends. I told him that I didnt want to see anyone I just wanted to be with him for that night. He got mad at me and started showing off what an *** he could be to me infront of his friends. Once his friends left he called me back wanting to know what took place at work and why my day was so bad. The 2nd incident was when he told some black girl that she needed to stop teasing and that he thought she was pretty. Well today I found a porn magazine and had the nerve to ask me what it is for. WTF? Anyways..he keeps saying he wants me and that he cares about me..but if the cares about me why put me through this?
2006-09-07 09:53:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump him! You deserve to be treated with respect and you can find someone better!
2006-09-07 10:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is only my opinion of course, but after only three weeks, I do not feel he owes it to you (yet) to drop his friends and hang out with you, regardless of the day you had at work. Now don't get me wrong, it would have been nice if he had, but I don't think it is something you should be upset about. BUT, him disrespecting you in front of anyone, his friends, or whoever is NOT cool. Also, I hate to sound rude, but I have a feeling he may not be very into you. I mean, what guy takes the chance of getting slapped by telling another chic to stop teasing him--IN FRONT of his girl?
As far as the porn, blow that off. But, all in all, this guy sounds like he may not be for you. Whatever you do, DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM anytime soon. It sounds like that may be all he's after (weather it be from u or that black girl)
Good luck, and I am sorry if I sounded mean.
2006-09-07 17:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, Baybie, you need to dump this fellow fast. He must be in the relationship for show and not to develop a friendship between the two of you. You are a beautiful lady and there are plenty of guys that would love to have you as a friend. Friendship is what you need in any relationship. Why would not want to be with your best friend for the rest of your life? You may have a best friend you tell all to right now, but the one man you are looking for in your life, should develop into your best friend. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 17:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
typical guy when he is with his Friends he does not want to come across to them as a punk,so he shows his dark side of being an asshole...so what you should do is call the 3 week relationship quits....his friends are more important to him than u are.once a player always a player.good luck.
2006-09-07 17:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say good buy to him! there is better, keep your guard up
the firsr three weeks should tell you a great deal ! Keep your guard up. Drop him fast!! He may have a very short temper. If you work with him , change your shift or always have someone around good luck
2006-09-07 17:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by echochat40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but the boy is a player...he is playing games with you so that you will be confused and not see that he is a player. He thinks his reputation and how people view him is more important that being a real man and giving you the love and respect you deserve.
2006-09-07 16:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are just starting out. i would expect this behavior from a man under some circumstances. he dont wanna say all that stuff infront of his boys because they might tease him or talk about him. he dont wanna say talk about all that how was your day stuff with you around his guys so thats why he waited till his guys left. thats happened to me before. i used to act different around my girls when my guy was on the phone so it goes both ways
2006-09-07 17:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ,sometime it look like that guys bad ,but try to understand the person you try to date,let me tell you one thing ,you lady always want a nice too much ,because of that ,guys set it as a trap for you,understanding is very important in every releationship,ok
2006-09-08 11:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by cityhopess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truley sorry but that guy is a loser. You shouldn't be with someone who only wants to be with you when it is convienent for them, everyone deserves someone better than that. Before you leave him I would give him a dose of his own med.
2006-09-07 16:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by bluesbaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl three weeks!!! Dump him!!! He should be more sensitive, if he isnt what you're looking for in a man then dont waist your precious life on him.
2006-09-07 17:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋