I would love a baby. I want a baby. I dont smoke, drink, or do drugs. 2 of my girlfriends are smokers and they drink alot every weekend..they got pregnant TWICE! They aborted the baby TWICE, and I'm really upset because I want a baby and my friends don't appreciate the gift God has given them. I stopped taking birth control pills in December.
2006-09-07 09:50:02 · 11 answers · asked by KyOOt T 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I do ask God..I pray everynight!
2006-09-07 10:04:16 · update #1
When your worried or stressed, It will be harder to conceive. That's why so many people who are just having unprotected sex, and not a care in the world get pregnant. It is perfectly normal for it to take up to One year to get pregnant. Also are you trying during your fertile times? That can be a big factor when your trying. I know how it feels to see people waist a precious gift. They're is not much you can do about it. Like I said the more you think about it. The harder to conceive. So they is probably nothing wrong with you, but It can't hurt to see your doctor.
2006-09-07 10:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon , i feel the same way. All my friend get preggers so fast and its so hard for me then they go and do something stupid and im still trying! I was on the pill for 6 1/2 years the doc told me to count 3 months for every year your on the pill for it to be out of your system and you to get back on track . it took us over 1year and 1/2 to get pregnant then i miscarried at 5 weeks( i had only known i was pregnant for just over a week) i was devesteated...we are now trying again. I have never wanted anything so much. I really feel for you . THe best of luck!...oh and the time i did get pregnant i really elive it was because we had stopped trying so hard...each time i got my period i was a wreck so we decided not to think about it ( i know reallyREALLY hard to do) but we did and the next month we were preg. GOOD LUCK ahng in there it will happen!
2006-09-08 02:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by PoohBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so understand how you feel i am there myself. It will happen to you as well you will be a better mom then they would ever be. Relax tho I have heard about Rasberry tea. Try a cup a day. It can take a yr or to get preggo So ot could be soon :) Have faith I try to do the same .As for drinking and I am sure I will get kicked for this But my mom could not have babies . Drs said No She and my dad a there friends got drunk one night ( btw their friends couldnt get preggo either ) well they both were preggo that next month lol
I think they just were having fun and relaxed and didnt care so much.I am goig threw the same as you . my thought are with you hang in there
2006-09-07 17:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-09-08 07:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a baby is a gift IF YOU WANT ONE! it sounds like your friends did what was their legal right. who are you to tell someone else what to do with their bodies? does your husband want a child? If you want a child so bad look into adoption, there are lots of kids who need a home. try foster care. sometimes women get preg the first time they have sex and sometimes it takes years. from your question why don't you ask God to give you a baby?
2006-09-07 16:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes some time for the medication for the pill to totally work out of your system..be patient
2006-09-07 16:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you are asking. What do you mean, what is wrong with you? Are you young? If so, then wait. You have a lot of time to have babies.
2006-09-07 16:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Good Gushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask a doctor, but if you were on depot it takes some time.
2006-09-07 17:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time before you know you well have to many to count... lol. Good luck
2006-09-07 17:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by dareyell2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the time is right god will give you a child.
2006-09-07 18:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋