How hot or beautiful would I have tobe for you to have sex with me.???
And would you only do it once or would you come back for more??.
2006-09-07 09:43:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jill B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2006-09-07 21:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Jill,
How far into the transition process are you? You sound as if you are still carrying quite a load of testostorone.
I don't know but do you want to pass or be some kind of ****?
There's more to being a woman than having a vagina and breasts.
I am quite concerned about your attitude in fact as I think you might be quite disappointed after you have the op.
There's a good article on the web called "So you want to be a T-girl". Here is the address http://www.missfiorella.com/t-girl.htm
I seriously think you should read it carefully before you take any further steps. In fact I beg you to read it before you cause yourself any lasting damage.
Regards
Augusta
2006-09-07 16:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I to am a pre op transsexual i find it hard to find woman how want any thing to do with me sexualy
but men that i have talked to find it a big turn on if they are gay but don't want a relationship as long term the sex will be differant post op
i know a few striaght guys who have said to my girl friends they proberly would do something post op but no way how i am now
when haveing relationships with women i seem to love them with my heart
but with men it seems to be just sex
so i just don't do it anymore good luck with transition
2006-09-08 00:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it doesn't matter how beautiful you are, I wouldn't want to have sex with you-no offense-because I am in a monogamous happy relationship with a delighful person. Johnny Depp wouldn't even tempt me.
I think it is very sad that your concern is totally about being good enough for someone to have sex with. As a 56-year-old woman, I have had a fair amount of great sex in my life. Even now, I could have any number of partners, anytime I want them. It is a small, however significant, part of who I am.
It seems to me that it is a huge part of you. It crowds out whether you are good at your job, honest, sober, a nice neighbor, a kind family member, or politically liberal or conservative. Does any of that matter to you?
My guess is, you are trying to fill a BLACK HOLE in yourself with concerns over what kind of genitals you have. I hope you pay attention in counselling.
I think the more important question is how do you get to be a beautiful person: generous, kind, hard-working, creative, and sweet, not a self-absorbed, debauched mess that we have to support.
Someone who has high self-esteem would not come on a world- wide stage to beg strangers to have sex with them once (or more.) A person who loves themselves would be holding people at bay--checking their credentials before they were allowed to interact with them at all. They cherish their lives and don't want them jeopardized.
I hope your operation is a success. I hope you find the body you are looking for. I hope you spend more time finding the PERSON who is inside you, longing for acceptance and joy, and not just allowing yourself to be a piece of *** for someone's passing whim.
My heart goes out to you.
2006-09-07 17:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Loony liz is loony!!
Personally i wouldn't want to have sex with you as i'm not that way inclined....I like my husband! Good luck with your op, when you eventually have it. I used to run a ward that nursed transexuals pre and post op, plus other surgical patients. Make sure you take a mirror!!!!!! Thats all i have to say!
2006-09-07 19:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by lounursey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never I have no problem with people what ever their sex but I do not look for it on line I mean I am not looking for a relationship full stop on line or otherwise
2006-09-07 16:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU WOULD HAVE TO BE YOURSELF AND OK IN YOUR BODY, LIKE GOD CREATED YOU. I BELIEVE YOU CAN LIVE WELL WITH THE GENDER YOU HAVE WITHOUT MAKING THIS SHITTY OP, THAT WILL ONLY BRING YOU MORE FAR AWAY FROM YOURSELF IN STEAD OF CLOSER.
SO STOP IT NOW, BEFORE YOU COMMIT A SIN AGAINST THE CREATOR BY MUTILATING YOURSELF.
I HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE YOU WILL LISTEN TO ME. DONT **** UP YOUR LIFE LIKE THAT PLEASE
2006-09-07 18:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"they" say there is someone out there for everyone.
2006-09-08 08:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, no.
2006-09-08 02:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Rachell C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a boyfriend...so thanks for the offer, but I don't cheat...
2006-09-07 16:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by M 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋