Before donating sperm, what important questions or issues should I think about and ask?

Question

I have been asked by my cousin's partner (they are lesbians) to donate sperm so they can have a child. They've offered me the ability to have as large or small of a role in the child's life and this excites me as I could be somewhere between an uncle and dad role. They are in a loving and healthy long-term relationship, both are professionals and I am not worried about the child having physical needs met. What are some specific issues/questions I should ask before proceeding? Has anyone else been in a similar situation and how did it turn out? Anything I should be aware of that may change after the baby's birth?

Answer 1

1-who gets the child in the event of a break up?
2-are your going to be legally responsible for child support in the event of a break up or death of one of the "mothers"?
3-what will your role be in important life decisions such as a cross country move for work?
4-Make sure to have a legally binding contract BEFORE the pregnancy.
5-what will you tell your future wife about this child how will you explain it to your future children?

Answer 2

You should also consider how your present or future partner might feel about you being the father to that child if you are taking a part in his/her life. If your with someone now you should also talk to them about it. Also, what is the rest of your family going to say/feel about it and can you handle it if they have negative feelings. If you can deal with it and deal with what everyone else thinks then go for it.