I have a crazy past. I won't go into detail but it is pretty wild. I'll just say I got myself into a lot of trouble a couple of months ago. See the thing is I have a gf. But today I met a girl who is friends with some of the people who are friends with people who don't like me. She's really nice. I could see that we are going to have a good friendship. I'm not sure if I should let her know about my past. What do you guys think. O and btw I'm not trying to cheat on my gf I'm just looking for new friends. Please be kind with your responses.
2006-09-07 09:31:14 · 14 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should be honest with her..especially if she knows people who know people who don't like you..Everyone has a past, it's who you are now that counts..I don't think you are trying to cheat on your girlfriend, I have many friends who are men...
2006-09-07 09:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend of mine go through a similar situation. She had issues with certain people b-cuz of a guy. Once she was "friends" with this girl who was also friends with the haters. It seems the whole time they hung out this girl was getting "information" for the haters. What kind of information? I don't know. But I'm just sayin to be careful what u say, don't let her in so quickly. Remember it takes time to build trust and can be destroyed in seconds.....
2006-09-07 09:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Iva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you think that your past is gonna hurt you and ur girlfriends relationship then maybe you shouldnt tell her. making new friends at first is kind of weird and hard. but make yourself known. sometimes you should just let people not like you. you cant force people to like you. you can let them know what a good person you are but you cant force someone to like you. those are the people that wont help you in life. they will just bring you down. and they may not like you because they are jealous. you might have things that they want and they cant have it. if they dont like you then forget about them and make new friends who will acually except you. and speaking of the girl make sure that you remeber that you have a girlfriend. tell us what you think and ask another question if you please.
2006-09-07 09:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by shanice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look we have all done things in our past we are not proud of, some do more than others, i know i did things when i was younger but you grow up.
Look if you are worried they are going to say things if they do take not alot of notice, if people know they are going to upset you they will do. If you treat it like its gossip and ignore it. It does not matter what they think just forget it. Try to learn from your mistakes. If people say things and you ignore it they will look bad not you. When God forgives he forgets that is all that matters, he is the judge the only judge does not matter what others think and say ignore it.
2006-09-07 09:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you always run into those people that a few appreciate you, and their friends don't. You acknowledge the fact you did something wrong, but you have to ignore the one's that don't like you. If the girl understands your past, and what not she won't be distracted by her friends' ignorance towards you... hope all goes well!
2006-09-07 09:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that you'll help him keep in mind that he's beautiful interior out and ur fantastically particular that this stunning female wouldnt like him if he replaced into unattractive(sorry yet thats how maximum ladies are. yet assuming that this female is diverse, it type of appears like she truly likes him and doesnt care about his seems yet his personality. i imagine its truly the beautiful personality that reflects how someone is. ur proper bud must be reminded on how sturdy he seems specially situations so as that he wouldnt imagine hes gruesome or something and plus remind him how u recognize his personality.
2016-11-25 19:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then 9 times out of 10 they all dont like you. The girl probably is phony and goes back and tell the girls stuff she found out about you. You dont need friends in life you have GOD and he always keeps it real. Remeber they dont have to love you, they dont even have to like you but they will RESPECT you cause you a BOss chick.
2006-09-07 09:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by cupcake 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If youo dont want any trouble like then say choose your friends wisely. If you know she is friends with p[eople who dont like you why put yourself in that situation. Just stay out of trouble. Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-09-07 09:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats too bad. i feel really bad for u, maybe u should just find a time to hang out with just this one particular girl without the others.
2006-09-07 09:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is the type of person who relies solely on what other people think (which btw if she is that kind of person... RUN!!!) Then you shouldnt have to worry about it.
2006-09-07 09:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋