Ok, i have a friend who copies me in EVERYTHING i do! we've been friends for 3 years now and she never used to act like this until this school year. she's really jealous of all my other friends and that boys like me and not her (she's a little over weight and tries to make me feel sorry for her for it and uses the excuse "i'm too fat" to get out of everything) she took my style, my taste in guys, and is always talking about me (sometimes in a bad way) and always wants to do things with me and i never have any time for my other friends. and she gets mad at me for no reason just to see if i'll apologize to her. i'm fed up with her! how do i tell her to give me back my identity and to stay out of my face all the time?
2006-09-07 09:16:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well in my idea I think you shouldn't talk to her cuz she isn't being a freind ...leave her alone she's using you to get to popularity and one day she will diss you in front of ur freind sto make herself look cool and the fat excuse has got to go.
2006-09-07 09:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by chameli/bebo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you stop telling her things about yourself, or that you want to buy or do so that she can't copy you. Don't return her calls as much, you don't ahve to say yes to hanging out with her. And if she gets mad at you for hanging out with other friends that's HER problem. You don't need to be wasting your time worrying bout your so-called friend being mad at you! Screw her, don't put up with that crap, life is too short!
2006-09-07 09:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is coping you because she looks up to you. Tell her she is being too needy and that you love being her friend but she needs to give you a little space.
2006-09-07 09:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to fix this is to sit down and talk to her. You need to decide if she's your friend or not...why were u friends in the first place...
2006-09-07 09:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to shool in a Burqa or alternatively stark naked for a day. I bet she wouldn't dare to copy that.
2006-09-07 09:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no instead try to explain i t to her what you want from her. tell her in secret but dont break her heart.
Love can change all things
You too must have fallen in love try by methods of love and it will work
2006-09-07 09:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by test page 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her on the things about her that are different from you or just tell her you need some space.
2006-09-07 09:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try and ditance yourself from her a little, and don't feel bad when you do things without her
2006-09-07 09:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Varacha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋