Ok my girlfriend and I have been dating for quiet a while now, but we haven't actually gone out/ out yet. We've already make out, and well I've fingered her and I can't believe I am putting my business out...... well after long consideration I am finally ready to take the next step. I dunno how to go about it. I've got a track history. I've been with lots of guys and well girls and nothing has really meant anything until now. So how do I make it mean something and make it special for both of us. We've both been with girls. In fact she's been with more and I am scared of not measuring up. What do I do?
2006-09-07 09:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by Leelee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Relax, be yourself. You have experience, you know kinda what to expect. Plus, you two obviously dig eachother - just think how much better the next time will be. Don't be afraid to communicate when you're intimate, it's a good thing (and totally sexy). Maybe let her take the reigns!
2006-09-07 09:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nehyers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy yourself. If you really want to make it special, light some candles and make a romantic evening out of it! If you worry about "measuring up" too much, you'll just get all closed up, and it won't be as natural or fun.
2006-09-07 16:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, be relaxed and not high or drunk.
Also to F.i.e.r.c.e. why don't you actually express your opinion versus quoting from a book which someone else has written. Yer flagged!!!
2006-09-07 16:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by nonyahbusiness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it, girl! just do what she likes...you should have some clue as to what that is by now....and try not to make it into a contest between you and her past experiences...everyone is different....just concentrate on what you can do together and make it fun...its supposed to be fun, right? relax!
2006-09-07 16:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by grl_addict 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to RELAX!
If your tense and uptight, it will make things worse for you.
2006-09-08 04:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and relax and do what ever comes normally
2006-09-07 16:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by DENISE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you meen having sex...bump monkeys!!
2006-09-07 18:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Leviticus 20:13
2006-09-07 16:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 7⤋