first i'm in middle school so please don't say nothin too far
well theres this guy i really like and were friends... i guess. i think that he really likes me but i can't tell. sometimes i catch him starin but as soon as i see he just looks away. he's shy around me so we don't talk alot unless its with other people around me and him i really think he likes me though please help!!!!!
also how do i flirt with him... i know i'm slow but.
2006-09-07 09:10:55 · 12 answers · asked by lacey j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well if you want to e-mail me for more details you can its lacey_james2@yahoo.com, the help will be very tanked for.
2006-09-07 09:13:23 · update #1
Middle school guys are usually shy around girls they really like. I know, I have a middle school son.lol I know you aren't old enough to date, but ask your mom if he can come over. Ask him to come over to do something that boys that age like to do. Play video games, ride go carts, something like that. If thats not possible, try having a get together at your house with a few friends, and Invite him. Try asking him to help you with something that you know he is good at. Even if you know the answers already.
2006-09-07 09:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to go to the zoo with you, or a place he likes, like a good museum. Com;liment him , take his hand, peck him on the cheek. If after one date he does not ask you out, try again. He might need some encouragement.
No movies the first few times. get to talk alot.
2006-09-07 16:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a male 9th grader
Just try to strike up conversation, ask him how he is, what he did over the weekend, whatever. Just don't try to act like you're really desperate or anything...
And most of all, just be aa nice as possible. The smallest things can be the most noticable...
Questions, comments, etc
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2006-09-07 16:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Phillip G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in school, I was very shy. If I liked some girl, it was tough for me to just go up to her. He may have the same problem. Just ask him if he'd like to call and chat sometime. If he's interested in you he'll jump at the chance.
2006-09-07 16:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he certainly likes you. Boys of that age tend to get really nervous and shy around girls they like. Try just talking to him - ask him questions about himself. Showing you are interested in him may help him open up a bit... and see where it goes from there.
2006-09-07 16:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to sound ignorant and 19 century..but if u thnk he likez u mabye hez juz findin a hard time "approaching u" about it..since itz usally da guyz job to approach the girl..but if u like him juz go ahead n ask..or use one of ur friendz to ask...dont let shynezz deter u frum a good relationship..holdon did u say u waz only in middle school...ok read thiz advice in a cuple more yearz..oh n rememba juz say no!!
2006-09-07 16:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by ppboyicewater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if he stares at you only to turn away when you look at him, he likes you :)
Just remember to keep it innocent kiddo. Nothing prepares you better for adult hood than learning how to make friends.
Good luck.
2006-09-07 16:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that when I was in 7th. And I didn't do anything. Nothing happened. So if you really want stuff to happen, then DO SOMETHING!!!!
2006-09-07 16:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young yet, grow up, when you're 16 come back and I'll answer your question
2006-09-07 16:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit next to him in class or lunch, you have to start somewhere.
2006-09-07 16:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋