2006-09-07 09:10:16 · 32 answers · asked by lady-t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The first time he did it, I would remind him that he is married, and to your best friend. The second time I would not hesitate to tell your friend. If it ruins the relationship between you, and your friend, than so be it. At least you come out the winner, and not a betrayer of a friendship!!
2006-09-07 09:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you are a true and loyal friend, you would tell his no good behind that it is not that type of party and that you are not interested in talking or being intimate with the husband of a someone you call a friend, then you should sit down with your friend and though it will hurt, tell her exactly what happened, when and how, if she wants all the gory details, she has the right to know the type of man she "really" married. Too many woman wind up on talk shows today because of this type of nonsense. If that's your friend, you shouldn't want to hurt her or see her get hurt by some cheating man.
2006-09-07 09:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use humor. Say : It's so great that we can all be friends....by the way, that's ALL we are....and that's the limit...Now isn't that great? Smile a lot! Then walk away with class. If he persists another time, do the same thing. If he asks why ytou are doiung the same thing, say " Well, apparantly you did NOT listen well the fiorst few times, so I'm reminding you"> Then walk away. If he perisists, leave wherver you are and refuse to be near him for a few months. tell the wife you are busy plannibng career moves, or taking care of health matter. This guy needs a victim. Sast away from predators.
2006-09-07 09:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd tell the husband to take a hike. And I'd tell the girlfriend what her husband was up to.
2006-09-07 09:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by johntadams3 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it depends on how he came about it. if it was a small remark or something i might let it slide but if it was physical i would say something. if he came onto you he has probably done it to other women and im sure your friend isnt as in the dark as you might think. she probably knows deep down that he is a dog
2006-09-07 09:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do what YOU have to do .. if you feel the need to tell the wife then do so...... or you could tell mr. wonderful, that next time you will......if this is talking about a long life friend of yours and you know he has done this with other women, maybe it is time for the wife to know just who and what she married..... but, be warned, she might NOT believe you and may blame you for it all..... God bless
2006-09-07 09:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i wouldnt do anything with him of course but i dont think i would tell my friend either unless it happened again because it could just be a mistake he's making but if he keepsit up she should know
2006-09-07 09:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him this is not a two for the price of 1 deal unless it is....
2006-09-07 09:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by NoPeace4Me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell my friend. But my friend married my ex so who cares. I told her to cuz i was done with him. Now she's living my nightmare. Hahaha good for her.
2006-09-07 09:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him off and if i thought he had a habit of coming on to other girls i would set him up so my friend would find out. you could also just tell the friend but she would probably take her mans side and and never believe you and you could possibly ruin a friendship
2006-09-07 09:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋