Would you say most, few, or some other amount, of the questions on here are either too one sided or exaggerate the problem? I understand the person asking might be concerned about their significant others fidelity, or about their chances with someone, but I sometimes think the answer is a bit of simple reasoning, or the problem has been turned into a mountain. if I see a question like "Oh my god, my gf/bf, hasn't called me in two days, does he/she hate me? Last week, he she didn't hug me as usual. What does this mean?" I bat an eye.
It means you need to take a deep breath.
2006-09-07 08:46:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is, might be genuinely concerned.
2006-09-07 08:47:25 · update #1
I would assume that that is probably the case, JustMe. Good point.
2006-09-07 08:57:51 · update #2
I think people just like to write in to see the answers. It's fun! And usually harmless. Sometimes people go overboard with their answers. People with personality disorders get carried away with mean answers. But, if kids want to ask about someone not calling, etc. let them. I don't know what I'm doing here either. Having some relaxation time I guess. It's kinda fun, except for the trash.
2006-09-07 08:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that the people asking the questions about "he hasn't called in two days, what does that mean" are kids. They cant figure it out with simple reasoning. The adults who come on here asking about fidelity are probably at their wits end and to them it is a huge deal. Its easy to do simple reasoning and not over reacting when its someone elses problem and not yours.
2006-09-07 15:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One sided because people ask questions to hear someone else say what they think. Someone will take your side. It validates one's own thoughts, ideas, way of looking at things.
2006-09-08 14:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by t c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋