2006-09-07 08:36:10 · 58 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!..She should divorce you!
2006-09-07 08:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by LB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try carrying something as big as a watermelon for nine months and see how big you get you butt head...
Divorce her? She should divorce you, I know she could do better than a self-centered all about me type of "man".
You are so immature do you want to get rid of the baby also because it cries. Grow up!
Have you talked to your wife about you and her doing something about the weight problem? Like walking with her helping her with a diet seeing a doctor about the weight gain?
Unfortunately some women gain to much weight during pregnancy and about the only way not to is to eat right and exercise and keep track of weight gain. usually a woman needs to gain at least 25 to 35 pounds. (check out the first Web Site listed below), depends on her average weight.
If you love and care about her you will talk to her and help her not ***** and moan like a three year old that has had his candy taken away from him.
2006-09-07 08:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by floridagrandma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be supportive of her, and encourage her to lose the weight. Tell her you love her nomatter what she looks like, but gently tell her you married her when she was alot thinner, and would be happier if she lost some of the baby weight. You need to be supportive of her though, or she will only gain more weight from being depressed, and stressed out.
I think its important that you be a father to your child, but I understand that it is hard when you have an ideal way that you want your wife to be like. You need to remember that she just had a child, and of course she will have some babyfat on her.
I think that when 2 people get married they need to work togeather to please eachother physically and non physically. The fact that your wife has gained tons of weight shouldnt be an excuse for divorce, however, she needs to realize that you married her at a certain weight. She should ad least try to lose the weight, but again you stated she just had a baby. It takes time to lose the babyfat, and you talking of divorce will only stress her out more.
You need to be a supportive husband, and stop being a jerk. Help her with the baby, go on walks togeather, or go do alot of activitys that require some form of movement.
By the way, you should be keeping your weight under control also, you cant expect your wife to settle for you looking lousy and want to lose weight for you.
2006-09-07 08:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!! Did your wedding vows say "In good times and in bad, unless of course you get fat and I don't like you anymore"? Well, I guess if your vows said that, then maybe you could get away with it! Love is not a feeling, it is a choice, a committment. When you married your wife, you made the choice to love her no matter what. Don't ruin your life, your child's life and your wife's life because you've temporarily lost the "feelings" that you once had. Stick through it. Show her that you love her and care for her. Bring her some flowers. Suggest signing up for an areobics class together, or go walking, running or jogging with her. Stop thinking selfishly for a moment and start thinking of others- in this case, your wife and child.
2006-09-07 08:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by The New Mrs. Nguyen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? Wow, what a selfish pig. Just because you're not attracted to her physically anymore doesn't mean you should get a divorce. That's so awful. And you have a kid. What a shame. No you should not get a divorce. The best thing you could do would be to talk to her about it.
2006-09-07 08:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you obviously don't love her. If you loved her it wouldn't matter that she put on a little bit of weight carrying YOUR child. It happens. Instead why don't you try to encourage her to eat healthy and go on runs with you or join the gym together. Say something to her. Think about how horrible you would feel if she wanted to divorce you because you put on some weight.
2006-09-08 10:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by K<3C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm about to give birth so my thin layer of patience is eroded to a state of non existence ,so let me tell you something mister you re seed got her pregnant you made her fat my husband knows damn well that if he makes even the slightest comment on my weight he will be in for a whole new world of pain that he wont recover from,you see my husband knows that if he leaves me I'm gonna have him tied up in family court for so long he will be living in a cardboard box by the time im through with him which makes my husband much smarter than you,here's a little piece of advice have you re wife breast feed the pounds just melt away ...looser
2006-09-07 08:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a jerk... it's your false she puts on that weight!!! If you didn't get her pregnant in the first place she would be fine, but yes divorce her, she deserves someone better than you. Oh! don't forget to wake up to the reality and never ever get marry again if you still think this way.
2006-09-07 09:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by S_M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you married her for her body instead of her mind. Looks only go so far. She carried your baby and now you want to throw her away because of her physical appearance. Do you realize how shallow that sounds. If you want to help her out ask her if she would like to start eating healthier and exercising because you want the two of you to be able to take good care of the baby.
I cant believe I answered this question I should of known it was from you. I think your questions are gross and just shows everyone how much intellegents you have. NONE!!!!
2006-09-07 09:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not!!! but if u r thinking like this, didn't you marry her for love! The woman just had your baby, which is something special for the pair of you and she needs your support during this period of time otherwise she could get postnatal depression, it's how nature works baby! and you are not being supportive at all as a father, husband or as a man! Are you a man or a mouse?! sounds like a mouse for wanting to run away, or perhaps you are afraid of looking after the aby because you don't know how to be a father? whatever it is you are only thinking of yourself and need to be thinking of your wife and child!
2006-09-07 08:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU SHOULD NOT. Instead of just turning away from her. why don't you help encourage her to lose weight. i'm sure she feels self conscious about the weight gain. Take the baby so she can go to the gym or something. I think alot of women fear gaining weight after babies, and you have just confirmed one woman's fear! If you really loved your wife, you would help her and it wouldn't matter how much she weighed ESPECIALLY after she just gave you a child!
2006-09-07 08:43:10 · answer #11 · answered by cmp8423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋