when is the best time to have kids...i mean to say should it b when your busband is ready or not or u just do and do it.
2006-09-07 08:22:46 · 17 answers · asked by mandy m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Both parents should be ready. When one parent isn't ready, it can cause major problems and the marriage may not survive. Besides, I think people are better parents when they are ready for it and work together as a team.
2006-09-07 08:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by christina_m_taft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait 'til you are BOTH ready. I know what it's like to want a baby, but trust me, it's best to wait just a little while He'll come around. Pregnancy is easier with a supportive, excited hubby, and he will be a more helpful, more involved daddy if you wait a while.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-07 15:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are both ready. The worst thing you can do is bring an unwanted child into this world. The father needs to be as happy in expecting a child as the mother.
2006-09-07 15:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by MISS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off be sure that you have the money. people these days dont think about that anymore because of all the assistance people can get, but its important! be sure that you will be able to provide for your child, that is one of the most important things you can do. last but not least, BE ABSOLUTELY sure that you will have plenty of time to spend with the child.. there's NOTHING more important then being able to show a baby love and comfort.
2006-09-07 15:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you are financially prepared. Also make sure you have a preconception checkup by the Doctor/Nurse Practicitioner. The male and female partner should have one to make sure you are physically healthy for conception.
2006-09-07 15:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by aaron_esq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good time to have kids is when you and your husband are financially and mentally ready to have one.
2006-09-07 17:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by VaLeRieZ_MaMii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never a good time to have kids. If you are waiting for something then you will never have kids. So my advice is to go ahead and have them before you eggs are all gone.
2006-09-07 15:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by jacemo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone knows when they are ready. It's not a certain age or time..just whenever you feel ready.
2006-09-07 15:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Getoff_ofmycloud! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it and do it...
But time it......with the beginning of your cycle... I think they say..on the 14th day from the beginning is usually the right time...if you have a 28-day menstrual cycle..
Something like that... it depends....
They sell pregnancy kits..nowadays that let you know exactly when you should do it...
Good Luck
2006-09-07 15:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you conceive without your husband's willingness ? lol !!
(Jokes apart)...... every time is an auspicious time provided both of you are prepared to share the responsibilities attached with raring of the kids!
2006-09-07 15:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Just_for_fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋