Whats Wrong With Me??

Question

i used to be way smaller 102 pounds i had tons of energy i LOVED going out every weekend and showing off my body. dancing was my life and i was so out going and adventerous. i Loved working out but i still ate whatever i wanted. Now i weigh 133 pounds i hate the way i look and feel and i cant work out i try and im so lazy i just want to lay and sit all the time. Whats wrong with me what happened?? please HELP

Answer 1

Talk to your doctor because you display signs of depression

www.depressionhurts.com

Answer 2

The first question I would ask you is: What changed (and then when did this change occur)? What happened to cause the change? Obviously something changed in your life that caused you to go downhill (more stress??). Perhaps it was a new boyfriend, breaking up with a boyfriend, a long lost relative came back in your life, some work associate or "friend" is covertly giving you a hard time (while appearing to be your best friend - stress????), etc.. Forget pyschs because they won't help you solve the problem, just cover it up. You've recognized something is wrong (good first step) and now you get to find out what it is to change it back. Can't help you much more than this in "Yahoo! Answers", which is just unfortunate. But sounds like you got the determination to fix the problem (good second step). check out the key words "cause of suppression" and you can check out the website listed: www.counselingthatworks.com/Debbie's Website/stress.htm. I have no idea who this is, but I think she can help.

Answer 3

You are getting older. Stuff that used to interest you is no longer fun (been there, done that, sort of a feeling). Also, as you get older (you don't have to be OLD), your metabolism just goes down naturally. Some people exercise to keep it up. Everyone goes through these ups & downs in life.

Answer 4

did u put the weight on all at once or did it sneak up on you i don't know about u but i use to lay around all the time and i thought i was lazy but i was sick i have an overactive thyroid and instead of putting on weight i was losing weight so u may have an underactive thyroid which makes u gain weight and u may think u are gaining for no reason so visit this web site webmd.com on hyperthyroidism/hypothyroidism hopes this helps

Answer 5

MAYBE YOU ARE DEPRESSED AND MEDICATING YOURSLEF WITH FOOD. WHAT HAPPENED? WERE YOU REJECTED BY SOMEONE WHOM YOU REALLY WANTED TO LIKE YOU? DID YOU TRY AND FAIL AT SOMETHING? ARE YOU STRUGGLING WITH ACCEPTANCE THAT LIFE IS NOT FAIR? DID YOU LOSE SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU? ARE YOU NOT WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE? DO YOU HOLD OTHER PEOPLE RESPNSIBLE FOR YOUR FEELINGS OR YOUR SELF IMAGE? HAVE YOU HIT 25 YEARS OF AGE (WHEN YOUR METABOLISM CHANGES) YET? WHY DO YOU THINK YOU CAN'T WORK OUT? WHAT IF YOU CHANGED "I CAN'T" TO "I AM NOT WILLING TO"? WHAT IF YOU KNEW YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE? WHAT IF YOU KNEW THAT IT IS YOUR JOB TO DECIDE AND CHOOSE HOW YOU FEEL? WHAT IF......

Answer 6

Find some up beat music that you used to listen to when you were so happy try to work out while you listen to it this will make a big difference.

Answer 7

You sound depressed and maybe you need to work out even if ya wanna be lazy ok hunny trust me i hate working out but do so anyways! If my lazy backside can stay in shape you can to. TRUST ME!!!!! You just to do it to it! AND STOP B!TCHING ABOUT YOUR WEIGHT CHICK YOU SMALLER THEN ME!!! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT!!

Answer 8

sounds like you are in a depressed mood. You should talk to your doctor.

Answer 9

sounds like you are depressed, or that is God's way of telling you to stop being so s!utty. i'm gonna go with the second explanation.