My best friends husband cheated on her and got the other girl pregnet. Now he lives with that other girl. So my friend got over it and moved on but she just found out 2 days ago that the other women got a job were she works at. So now she is very nervous and wants to quiet her job of 12 years. I told her not to do it! Tell me what you think she should do?
2006-09-07 07:31:52 · 10 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your friend the worst thing that she could do is quit her job. Why is she allowing this woman to defeat her? she already stole her husband and now she is allowing her to steal her job too?. I can imagine a situation like this she would want to run away from but tell her to stand up and not be defeated. In time the other woman will quit because she won't want to be labelled as the woman who stole your friend's husband. All the other co-workers are gonna look at her with scorn.
2006-09-07 07:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with you,, I do not think she should quit her job of 12 years. If she truely got over it and moved on she should be able to handle this. Im not sure what the job is,,will they work together or do they both work in the same building but will never work together or even have to speak to each other.
I would not walk away from a 12 year job which I worked hard at and if she does she will lose her pay more then likely, any benefits she has come to in those 12 years. To me it just wouldnt be worth losing that part of myself.
I wish her the best.
2006-09-07 07:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by enoughmichele04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend not to quit her job. she shouldn't give the husband stealing bimbo the satisfaction tell her to keep her head up and prove she is the better woman her husband was a jerk she will find some one better
2006-09-07 07:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by shere w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could talk to the supervisor and explain the friction and ask that the two of them never work in the same department.
2006-09-07 07:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by memorris900 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely she won't have to quit her job - the other girl probably will! lol
2006-09-07 07:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't quit she did nothing wrong.that other girl will quit soon. because she won't be able to work there and have to look at the other lady.
2006-09-07 07:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should stay she was there first and should feel like she needs to leave just because that homewreaker has a job there.
2006-09-07 07:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand proud and keep her head upp!!! walk like she isnt there tell her to not quit then it looks like it bothered her and it will bother the other chic and shell feel like shes stupid. good luck!
2006-09-07 07:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by rocs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right .........don't do it.......................12 years is a lot of years to throw away..............He already cost you some years........just go on...........something is up for her to get a job where she work..................
2006-09-07 07:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay at the job...karma will get the gf
2006-09-07 07:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋