What should I do if my husband can't satisfy sexually? (Too Small)?

Answer 1

There's more to being a good lover than having a big penis. Much more. If he doesn't know how to satisfy you, then it's time you show him. Most guys are eager to get any kind of help or suggestion from their partner. Show him what you like. Show him how to use that tongue. Those fingers. Then take him to an adult store and both of you pick out a toy that he can use on you and you can use on yourself. There are numerous ways to be satisfied behind closed doors. You just need to turn him onto a few of the ways.

Answer 2

I'll answer this question assuming that you want to continue to be faithful to him and have a satisfying sex life together.

I'd suggest experimenting with sexual techniques that he can use to satisfy you such as oral sex, or experimenting with sex toys (dildos, vibrators, etc) that can help to "get the job done" as a supplement to your normal love making.

Perhaps it is also possible for him to look into enhancements for his manhood, to the extent that these are affordable and practical.

Answer 3

I never heard a woman admit this before, although I have heard of "incompatibility".
This may be the case.
Most women say its not the size, but what you do with what you have. Maybe he needs to learn how to use his tool more effectively. In this day, it seems that you would have discovered this before you got to the alter. Now you may just need to do the hard work yourself, beforehand, and enjoy the cuddling afterwards.

Answer 4

I know what you mean. Sex cannot be the same sort of intimate act without good penetration. Basically, it's just two people humping, not a joining of souls, and that sucks.

I'll be honest. You should try to get a divorce or possibly an annulment based on his for-all-practical-purposes impotence. Then find a partner who can give you a sexual experience like it's meant to be.

Answer 5

Ouch! Get a vibrator....I actually prefer the little cheap ones. Women don't usually get 'satsified' (if by that you mean have an orgasm) from vaginal penetration anyway. It requires (for most of us) clitoral stimulation, which you don't get from intercourse, regardless of size. They also make these sleeves that go over the penis to make it bigger, on that one definitely invest in a good one. Is he any good at oral? That can help a lot too, but some guys just aren't very good at it.

Answer 6

Be creative!!!!!!!
Try different positions, or use toys!
Go to the "sex shop", there's all sorts of whirlygig's there to help spice things up.
There's this cool thing that's kind of a "c0ck ring" that has a vibrating dolphin on it to stimulate your clitoris. It holds more blood inside his penis to make it slightly larger and harder than usual, plus you get a vibe and the same time!!!!
Cheer up, things could be a lot worse!

Answer 7

Try different positions ... Kama Sutra

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

Answer 8

ahhhhh finally a easy one. hear this one alot. well if you and hubby arent doin it right you can try something way out there and have an affair on the side, if that goes against the grain go to your local adult book store and purchase the biggest dildo you can find and after dinner one night when you go to bed pull that mamba out and use it there in front of your husband. i guarantee u this works everytime

Answer 9

bring toys to bed with you & ask him to help. you can make it fun & buy them together,maybe evenget a few for him. if you love him you know that being satisfied is going to come from alot more places than his hoo hoo.

Answer 10

Girl I would just find somebody else on the side that can satisfy my needs.