i comitted socite once and now i wana again , but now i m going to marry ,he is nice but i love some one else what should i do?tell him the truth or leave my bloved?
2006-09-07 07:26:55 · 24 answers · asked by sony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-09-08 22:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first you need to get on some anti-depressive medication and then decide what to do. But I do think it is probably best you do not marry this guy, if you love another. That is going to get you into so much trouble, and also a loveless marriage. Is that what you want. AFter you are on the medication you will not want to commit suicide. Your brain does not have enough Serotonin, which is a natural chemical that we have in our brains, so when you bring it up to the normal level, you can think better. So, please, go to a doctor and get into counselling.
2006-09-07 14:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion I think before commiting to someone (as in being in a relationship) you need to help yourself first. There's that saying ("You have to love yourself first before you can love someone else"). And if you're marrying this guy who is nice but love someone else you have no business with either of them, you need lots of help. If you married and you still had these urges to commit suicide and something did happpen, how do you think your partner would feel? Did you ever think about that? I wish you the best and hope you feel better.
2006-09-07 14:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first to simply put suicide is is the thinking of your subconscious mind, it ususally occurs in certain people who have a low self esteem. sometimes it could be caused by a tramatic event that happened sometime in your life and you want to escape that mental picture. i would simply suggest get some help . talk to a good friend preist or maybe even your high school psych teacher, they are smarter than shrinks
2006-09-07 14:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by pisof49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I think you should find a doctor to help you with your depression. People with suicidal minds don't want to commit suicide, they want to be out of the situation and because of their depression they think the only way out of the pain is to commit suicide. I say this because I tried to commit suicide twice before in my teenage years and I realize that I was in a deep depression that I wouldn't get out of it without medical help. Unfortunately, back then there was no medication available like we have now, so I treated my depression with help of a psychologist, homeopathic medication, hypnotherapy and acupuncture.
Now, as an adult, I had been in depression due to life events, but not as deep as before and I treated with medication. i seriously think you should get some help from a doctor.
2006-09-07 14:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short and sweet to throw it away,there is nothing worth throwing your life away for.if u need some one to talk to e-mail me (pinkpanthress_24@hotmail.com).As to getting married, if you don't love him, let him know,don't get married if you don't, it won't work.always pray and keep the faith.God is always with you and you are on this earth for a reason you probably won't see it now,but u will.I know sometimes things can seem hard but just find someone you can trust to talk to,release your feelings don't keep them inside,because the stress is what's probably giving you these tendencies.
Good Luck Love
P.S Remember (e-mail me) i may seem far away but u can still talk to me.
2006-09-07 14:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by Caribbean Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal to have suicidal thoughts.
If you do not love him. Then DO NOT marry him.
Killing yourself is not the answer. True your problems will be over thing. However how do you know you do not have purpose in life?
2006-09-07 14:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tangled web,
a distraught mind
she is too nice
to be kind
Yet if nice kills
her spirit free
her soul a ship
lost at sea
2006-09-07 14:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there is no need to commit suicide for that..i mean look you don't like they guy you are marring then don't. You don't have to kill yourself....just tell him the truth he will understand ;)
Take care..and if you need someone to talk to then email me at: blue_flamme @hotmail.com i'd be glad to help :)
2006-09-07 14:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you comitted suicide then you wouldn't be alive.
You need help, no offence but it's true. Talk to someone close.
2006-09-07 14:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋