ive tried going out with such pple and they think i just want them for a ride which isnt so.they refuse to undrstand that theyre special to some people.
2006-09-07 07:19:13 · 16 answers · asked by benjyblazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They're cautious to actually believe that someone can like and accept them for who they are. They don't want their heart to be broken, and would rather leave their guard up and be alone instead of getting their hopes up and going through the pain of rejection. That's how I used to think.
2006-09-07 07:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm an older woman, but I sure as hell aint thick. I've dated 3 younger guys, relationships that have lasted longer than dating men my own age. Perhaps the only thing is that after months of dating "some" young guys start treating us like their mothers. Try and understand that we've had "our" kids - we don't need to mother a lover!!!
2006-09-08 02:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ppl were just so bullied and made fun of when they were younger that it's very hard for them to believe people would actually really care about them, it's a defense mechanism, if they don't let you in you can't hurt them or make fun of them.
2006-09-07 14:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
inferiority complex. It happens. I suppose if you hang around long enough and such pple get to know you they may learn to believe what you are saying.
2006-09-07 14:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have a self-image problem.
They look in the mirror, then look at the TV, and they know they don't look anything like the girls on TV.
So they feel unworthy, and can't believe that anyone feels any differently about them.
2006-09-07 14:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're insecure about the way they look. Maybe instead of being so paranoid about it, they should do something about it, like exercising or dieting.
I hate people that complain about something that they have control over.
2006-09-07 14:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously going out with the wrong types, not all older women are thick.Maybe they find you too immature
2006-09-07 14:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by dinahmite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just used to guys being like that. So it's hard to trust any guy.
2006-09-07 14:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the answer is in you referring to them as thick ,,, you might want to try flattery
2006-09-07 14:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by barefordi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice things are harder to believe!
2006-09-07 16:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋