My baby just turned 1 and I kicked her father out about 6 months ago for drugs, alcohol, and for cheating, his cousin is my baby's god father and I have always been in love with him way before I even knew his cousin. We were together for like a month ( the happiest I had ever been ) and he broke up with me because his family wasn't really all that happy about it. What do you guys think? Do you think it's wrong?
2006-09-07 07:16:47 · 5 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is not wrong. take his support for your future and family. good luck.
2006-09-07 07:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You like drama, don't you?
Stop being so unhealthy and think for a second. Whether you kicked your baby's father or not, he is his father. Unless you got total custody, he will be in his and your lives forever.
With that in mind, do you want to bring his cousin into this? I would never for the life of me ever see a woman who was with a cousin of mine.
I may as well sleep with my sister. How much more sick can I be? Of course his family wasn't happy about it. It is stupid, unhealthy and sick. Sorry for telling you this, but someone has to.
What the hell? Are you into inbreeding?
I question this man's integrity for getting involved with a woman who was married to his cousin, to the mother of his nephew (because your baby is his nephew).
And I question your integrity and your disposition for being a good mother for getting romantically and sexual involved with this man, your ex' cousin just a few months after breaking up with him.
Get your crap together, and concentrate on your baby. Your romantic and sexual happiness must take the back sit while you try to get your life together and be a good mother.
Later, then you have the right to look around for a good man.
Of all the men that you could go to sleep with, you have to do it with your ex's cousin? You certainly like drama, and you have a very unhealthy outlook on life.
Time to get your priorities straight, sister. You have a baby now, and you don't have a right to fool around like that anymore. Be a good mother first. Then you'll be in a better position to find a decent partner.
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At the very least, think of what kind of example you will give your baby. Children do and live the same way parents do.
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Think about all the conflict this will bring to your baby's life. What will happen when his father gets visitation rights?
What when your baby turns 12-14 and has to move to his father (which will happen if both of you have shared custody.)
What will kids tell your baby when he/she grows up? "is your daddy a cousin of your daddy?"
There are millions of men out there. No need to sink your head for one who has family ties with your baby's father.
2006-09-07 14:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by elnyka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a nice guy and way different than your ex husband... go for it.
its not anyones fault they are relatives!
2006-09-07 14:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he makes you happy....run with it!
2006-09-07 14:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kristie S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is he in love with you? if yes, go for it.
2006-09-07 14:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋