to all this people out there that put us women down for putting are children up for adoption or into care ! keep out ) as you havent been there yourselfs so you dont know how us women are feeling .no we dont moan about are past ethier. the people out there that put women down are leaving someone else out. GET LIFE SAD PEOPLE ...
too all women out there be strong and put your head up high nothing too be shamed of in this life i can tell you .there is some people out there are very shelfish ...
BE PROUD!! domestic volience is hard but we get out ..
if anyone wants to feel they want to talk email me and i will keep you safe ..
2006-09-07 07:15:01 · 8 answers · asked by michelle r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think people who place their children up for adoption are more considerate . They did not decide to have an abortion because it would be an incovienient 9 months . Some people are not capbale at that time for taking care of a child . We can not judge as we do not know their circumstance . Others can not have children of their own so it also gives them an opportunity
2006-09-07 07:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you can't keep everyone safe and although it's commendable for putting your child up for adoption, it's not something one should really go off on a tirade about. You brought a child into this world that you pushed in to the system because of your bad personal choices. Sure, giving them up may seem like the best thing for them. However, if you had used birth control, and never brought them into your mess, it wouldn't be an issue. Giving up children for adoption isn't something to take pride in honey....it's an easy out. Now being a mother, day in and day out, sacrificing your life for someone elses.....that is something to be proud of!
2006-09-07 07:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just to let you know...I was put up for adoption when I was a baby. I do not know why, but I do appreciate very much that my birth mother had the guts to do what was right in her situation. I was adopted by a wonderful, loving family. I was never treated any differently than my older brother who was my adoptive parent's natural child. I have had a great life and no struggles. I feel lucky and I thank the lady who gave birth to me and gave me a better chance that she had.
2006-09-07 07:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by diturtlelady2004 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was in a domestic violent relationship and do you know what I did in the best intrest of my children? I got out and proceeded to take care of my children. Basicaly you are choosing to stay with an abusive dirt bag and in ordet to do so you are going to give your kids up instead of getting the ***** out and making a better life for you children? That is pathetic why would you even have kids in the first place. Do you know how bad this will trumatize them? You know maybe it is best for them because those kids sure dont need a selfish heartless mother like you. Hopefuly who ever adopts them will give them a good life and love them more then you have
2006-09-07 08:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think anyone could understand without being in that situation. I have not and I am lucky but I know if I was I would probably put my child up for adoption or in to care. I wouldn't want my child in that situation.
I think it's terrible for both involved, but it's good to realize you love your child that much you are going to live with a life long scarifice.
2006-09-07 07:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well arent you the mother teresa of adoption.
2006-09-07 07:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am proud that you did the right thing. You have my respect.
2006-09-07 07:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO IT JUST GOES TO SHOW HOW STUPID WOMEN LOVE TO DATE THE PIECES OF SHI* GUYS
2006-09-07 07:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋