went to a party about 4 weeks ago and had little too much too drink and woke up with my ex. bf naked at his house. i rarely party and up till then had not for 6 months i dont remeber what happened and neither does he. i pretty sure we had sex though cause the room smelled like it and the sheets were messy of it. i still dont have my period i was due the week after the incedent and i am worried. i am a softmore in college this year and am terrified . i took at home test that as negative 2 weeks ago but the doctor gave me a pelvic check and ultra sound and i came up pregnant the blood test still has not come in. you could not see much on ultra sound though or at least i could not.
2006-09-07 07:14:47 · 15 answers · asked by jackie w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i cant get in tough with my ex. bf cause his gf told me not to call ever again and i cant tell my bf cause its his best friend . we were on break when this incedent occured.
2006-09-07 07:16:34 · update #1
how accurate a pelvic and ultra sound tests?
2006-09-07 07:18:38 · update #2
i have yet to have sex with my current bf
2006-09-07 07:21:07 · update #3
The pelvic and ultrasound are 100% accurate--the doctor must have been able to see the sac on ultrasound so you're pregnant.
2006-09-07 07:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you asking?Wreckless behavior by young people give others a bad rep.Theres not much anyone can say to make you feel better.If you were having sex with your bf prior to this incident he or the ex could be the father.If youre not sure dont point fingers.Regardless they both should know,no matter how you have to tell them.You did not do this alone,but you may have to go through this without either of them.Because he will probably deny it,and your bf may leave.So,just be strong youre not the first person to do without the help of a father to the child.Bet now you remember why you didnt party.
2006-09-07 07:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant. You just have to sit down and think about what you want to do. If you cant get in touch with the ex, then sit down and talk about it with your best friend. Weigh out all of your options and decide whether or not you want to continue with the pregnancy. It would be best to let the ex know but if you can not get in contact with him than what are you suppose to do. It will be a decision you have to make on your own. You also should sit down with your current boyfriend and discuss everything that is happening. As much as it may hurt him and you to know the truth, its better than living a lie
2006-09-07 07:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by CHOCOLATE_SCORP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your ex that it could be his. Is there anyway it could be your boyfriends'? Your doctor might be able to help you figure out about when you conceived. If both men are possible answers that I highly recommend a paternity test. I understand that it's very difficult for you, but this child (assuming you are pregnant) has the right to know who it's real father is and the real father has the responsibility to support the child. You might lose your boyfriend over this, but it's in the best interest of the baby to be honest.
2006-09-07 07:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're preggo. If your ex ended up in bed with you and now he's going to have a child...It doesn't really matter what his current girlfriend says now does it? He has a right to know. Forget your current boyfriend...you cheated on him and you're pregnant as a result and you guys have never even been intimate?? He's barely your boyfriend...set him free of this mess and talk to the EX.
Hey maybe all of you can go on Jerry Springer and make some cash.
2006-09-07 07:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the blood test that is the definitive test. If you are then you have a lot more to consider ... keep the baby ... or not. I have a definite opinion but let me say this ... years ago I got my GF pregnant. I convnced her to abort (OBTW she was a Soph in College as well) I went to the clinic with her during the procedure.
I was ok for a few years ... but it has haunted me .. I regret it now.
As does my old GF. I am not say our lives are devestated by our decison but looking back we wished we never had ...
2006-09-07 07:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! I know you are probably scared to death. Please just tell the truth to anyone involved and I can promise you it will all work out. I know it does not seem like there is a happy ending at this point but when you have this child it will be all different. You life will change for the better. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 07:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations Sweety Your Having a Baby! Isnt it Exciting! LOL I know your scared shitless! If your doc didi a pelvic exam and u/s and says your oregnant...YOU ARE! I would confront your ex. He will be in denial and probably shun you but, if not man, your lucky! But, of course now you have the choice of if you want to keep it or not. either you do or it goes up for adoption. (If you even think of abortion.... Please just dont do it!) You will be fine! Either way congrats!
2006-09-07 07:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by baby_gurl_3778 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His GF can take her words and shove them because it is not her place to decide who gets to speak to him and he has a right to know he is going to be a father.
I would contact the ex bf and tell him you are pregnant and then break it to your bf and be prepared for the worst like him dumping you and the ex bf not wanting to be in the babies life or denying it
2006-09-07 07:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky this. Look, a OBGYN knows when your pregnant, your uterus turns purple when you are and he/she can see that when they examine you.
Talk to your boyfriend now, don't betray him any longer, it sucks, but you made this mess, now start to clean it up!
Also, find a way to tell the ex ( your just avoiding it) theres no way that it's that hard to get in touch with him.
Next, think of what you are planning to do. Keeping it? Not keeping it? And go through with your decision, and remember, it is YOUR decision. God be with you.
2006-09-07 07:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋