I am selfish
we are too different
I think I have a gambling problem
I don't really know you
I want to get to know you more
I am not looking for anyone else
I mean we spend every weekend together and talk on the phone everyday
I am not good at relationships
I will never chase after anyone
I like doing my own thing and never having to explain
I like not worrying about others
I don't know if there is a future for us
when asked, (straight forward) Are you saying we should slow things down?
he laughed as if every thing was fine.
By the end of the conversation, he asked if I want to have a quickie at lunch tomorrow.
What is this guy doing to me? I don't understand. I he doesn't want me why play games? He calls me all the time, he gets jealous of other guys. I feel like I going to get hurt, I don't know what to do.
2006-09-07 07:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by wrthyofluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he's looking for fun dates with you, but not romance or any type of committed relationship, long-term or otherwise. He's not ready or willing to settle down yet.
I'm pretty sure that's not what you wanted to hear, but that's how it seems to me.
2006-09-07 07:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sugar. You deserve better than this. No one should be talked to like that...no one. He is treating you bad...really bad. Its time to walk. You probably have many talents ad many goals in life, go for your dreams, don't settle for this scum bag! He should be treating you as if you you were a queen.
2006-09-07 15:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Angel of Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST RELAX SWEETIE ITS NOT WHAT GAME YOU PLAY IS HOW U PLAY IT
PEOPLE ARE BORN DIFFERENT. HES A WILD HORSE SO U NEED TO TAME HIM GIVE HIM SPACE TO GROW
GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BEFORE YOU TIE THE KNOT
AS MY PROVERB GOES
TASTE AND TRY BEFORE U BUY
2006-09-07 14:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him fast, he's just looking for that quickie at lunch!
2006-09-07 14:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by irish_yankee51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's got a problem and he's definately insecure. he's complaining about you and telling you he's not sure about the future of you two. isnt that a sign that you should leave him?
2006-09-07 14:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a scrambled brain. And you will get hurt if you let him use you as a sexual plaything.
2006-09-07 14:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaawww....so sad for you!!! Move on Honey....there are plenty of fish in the sea...he's using you for sex or maybe just lack of anything else to do.....get rid of him!!!
2006-09-07 14:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight just talk to him.See what he says.
2006-09-07 14:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋