2006-09-07 06:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I haven't been married, but I do know it will be a struggle. I am scared to do it but know I will meet the right person one day. Sometimes in my current relationship I do feel married but really not. It is about compromise and understanding
2006-09-07 07:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost five years. My wife is wonderful. I think the key to having a good marriage is having good communication. You need to be able to let your partner know what it is you need from the relationship in order to remain happy. Marriage is also a compromise. When possible, if you both feel differently about something, you need to try to meet halfway. Your objective should be to please your partner in all areas of their lives, to the best of your capabilities. Trust is also a very key element. Lovemaking is also very important, because it what keep the intimacy, and the romantic nature of the relationship alive. You also learn that sometimes things that you might consider of little importance, can in fact be very important to your partner. Learn to READ your partner, and respond accordingly.
2006-09-07 14:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 26 years.
I met my sweetie in high school and I think I love him even more now than I did then.
If the marriage is a good one, it's the glue that gets you through the difficult times and the laughter that gets you through the good times. We've been through births and deaths and poverty and success and there have been times when we've fought but so many more times when we've been there for each other and laughed.
A good marriage takes so much more than love. It takes respect and humor and a lot of work but it's so worth it when it works. :)
The trick is, marry the right person.
2006-09-07 13:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Canadian_mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is like being home. It is normal, and natural. We have grown together and it would be a powerful and horrible shock to become unmarried. We have commitment, spend hours talking at least a few times a week, share all our income and expenses, and we raise our beautiful daughters together. It's not all joy and bliss, mind you -- there is sickness, arguments, relatives one doesn't like, and irritations. But these negatives are very small to me, compared to all the goodness.
We just began our second twenty years.
2006-09-07 13:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good happy marriage is work. it has its ups and downs. you have to give 100% into it. you have to want a marriage to work for it to. it's a wonderful thing if you are with the right one. i have been married for 3 years.
2006-09-07 14:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been married for one year and a half but been with my husband for eleven years im 28 weve been seeing each other since i was eleven. marriage is hard very hard. it has its good days i woldnt suggest anyone do it early like i did. the getting in a serious relationship at ayoung age you miss out on things kids become involved at ayoung age. youlose your identity too young.
2006-09-07 13:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by super mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marraige is NOT a 50-50 proposition. It is a 100-100 deal. What it becomes is what you put into it...
2006-09-07 13:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by bart4play 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is like flute! if u blow need not produce melody but if u don't it will produce noise! !
2006-09-07 13:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by macline k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋