for him and his mom, then he was up and gone by falsefing on a protective order. do i wait for divorce or do i take him and his mother to cival court because i need help, i am unable to do what i am suppose to by my kids and it seem like they do not care.
2006-09-07 06:34:40 · 11 answers · asked by epleasedontstop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Marital debt/asset and will get divided according to your state laws.
2006-09-07 06:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is his name on the mortgage that you refinanced or just your name? You refinanced to pay off his and his mom's credit cards? And then they left you to pay the mortgage? I hope I understand this, if his name is on it, he has to help pay or his credit will be ruined among other things. Are the kids, HIS kids? If they are doesn't he want them to have a home? Even if they're not his kids, he should have a heart and help them and you have a roof over your heads. Whichever would be quicker, I would do between the divorce and court, because you can't mess around and not pay your mortgage. I guess if all else fails, sell the house, get a divorce and start over?!
2006-09-07 06:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You don't control the actions of others. Make a judgment of whether you will receive help from him. How? By projecting his past behaviors. You most certainly can expect nothing from him bases on the past, right? Take him and is mother to whatever court you can to get what you need and do not expect anything except grief from them.
2006-09-07 06:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I accept as true with justagirl you ought to were off the deepest loan with a month or 2 after the divorced. it ought to were reported contained in the decree. Your criminal professional screwed up large time. although is purely $660 take the extreme street pay it and also you'll in no way ought to agonize about it again.
2016-11-06 20:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the words of Milhouse: "When my mother wants my dad to cry, she calls her lawyer."
If the guy is being a deadbeat and can't support his own decisions (marriage, kids, etc.) then take him to court; however, due to lawyer fees and what not, it might cost you more than you think. I would research your options and talk to a firm before proceeding.
2006-09-07 06:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the process of a divorce ask your attorney what to do. Sounds like your soon to be ex is a jag. Good luck.
2006-09-07 06:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by dudeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got you good dear. Try to make the payments or you will lose the house. Take him to the cleaners on the child support.
2006-09-07 07:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him then sue him. but if there was no agreement for them to pay you back then sorry to say ur screwed. least youll get child support from him if its his kids. if their not then once again ur screwed.
2006-09-07 06:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow did he make a fool of you or what! Sorry dear, but you should have known better!
2006-09-07 06:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not being mean, BUT next time think of your kids first, not after you've been taken!!! How do you make them pay up? Anyway that works!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-07 06:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋